how do u know whent to "go for it" with a girl?
anybody? one of my curiostity questions.
2007-03-14 16:12:09 · 38 answers · asked by that musican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All else constant; you just know when the other person wants it, it's not a matter of experience, it's instinct, it's natural, you just know.
Girls, Women, Hags; (whatever your age is), today are all about keeping their virginity, or at least their social virginity.
I was once in a heated debate with two of my best friends over this issue, and I asked them.. "if you really like a guy, would you have sex with him right away?"
The told me.. "No! I'd wait at LEAST two months." Though they did me the favor of sparing me from their female logic, the reason was quite clear.. They screw guys who they just want to have fun with, and say goodbye to them quick.. and hold back from sex with guys they are into, and don't want to let go of.
Think of it as a female test, Women Nazi Camp. If you can live without sex for 2-3 months, they you passed the test. Because that's what it really is. She wants to show you that she's not easy, that there's more to the relationship and all the great stuff.. but in the end.. it's 2007, it's a new relationship.. and for god's sake.. it's sex!
Yes, if it's someone serious.. Give it a while.. have your moments where you just want to have sex, but let them be just that.. don't go through with it further.. Get to know her, love her, let her become that special person to you.. and then.. just sit back.. and either you or her.. will go on auto-pilot, and somehow initiate sex.. She'll ask you to go to some place for a short vacation, just the two of you.. It's irrelavent where you go.. you know it's sex when she's asking to stay more than two days at some room..
You might ask her to come with you to some place, or stay over your place for the night, after you both stay up all night having drinks and watching tv, playing games, talking, having fun.. those things lead to stuff you know..
I remember I played strip poker with tarrot cards with this one girl over my place, I got a royal flush.. we had the most amazing sex that night.. the next day, four people died.. lol jk..
2007-03-14 16:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when u are both really comfortable with each other and with talking bout this subject im not going to say u need to be in love( it want hurt) but u need to make sure that ur not going to wake up the next morning and be like oh man what did i just do. u also need to be mentally ready u cant be wish-wash u need to know what u want and what u don't want and u need to be emotional ready b/c there are a lot of emotions attached to having sex
2007-03-14 16:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think to have sex you shouldn't wait because it can be any time morning or evening. If you asked about age it is better to have sex after 18 years old as doctors say.
2007-03-14 16:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is giver her subtle hints letting her know that you want to have sex and watch her reaction if she is all for it, she will let you know maybe with a kiss on the neck or a touch, if not she will back off.. it is all up to the two of you..
2007-03-14 16:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by kalynn h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well when you both feel its right. I think you might have to wait till you guys are making out or something give a tiny implication that ou wana do it and if she stops then she wants to wait if she keeps going then she wants it
2007-03-14 16:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the two of you. Talk with her about it first. Don't assume that it's all up to you. After all, you know it takes two, right?
2007-03-14 16:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....slow down there partner......When your ready to take on the responsibility of possibly becoming a father(like it or not) and 18 years of garnished wages for child support,that's when you will know when its time to "go for it"
2007-03-14 16:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when she flirts more than usual and/or does something that she normally don't do like touchy feely more etc. or just ask her how she feels about having sex and say that you won't be pushy and for her to let you know when she is ready
2007-03-14 16:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very good question! Well, it is very individual, so it's tough to know. For example, as for me, I only like to have sex at one particular time--when I'm awake. :)
2007-03-14 16:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Sue_Desdemona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll let you know by her actions. It will just happen when the time is right. There is no right or wrong time. just make sure you protect yourself. O.K?
2007-03-14 16:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋