HI ok so i was dating this girl and she was awesome but we had some problems so we broke up. Now she wont talk to me and my friends hate her. BUt i still care about her and i want to get back together with her. What should I do?
2007-03-14 16:06:13 · 8 answers · asked by Your best friend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you have to figure out if the problems bothered you that much. Realize that you can not change her and she will not be able to change you no matter what. If you can live with her problems, and she can live with yours, then get back together with her. If you can not put up with those problems you are better off without her - you can do better.
2007-03-14 16:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well everyone is gonig to have problems in there realtionship i mean we are all humans you just need to sit down with her and talk to her and i see that you said she is not talking to u then u need to make her b/c if u reall wont to get back together then u will find a way to mke he listen to u and that is all u need to do
sorry if this did not help
2007-03-14 16:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember... What is a true friend? Someone who supports you right or wrong. You may be wrong in your feelings but we don't always get to choose who we care about. You have the right to your own feelings. Go with them. If it doesn't work out true friend's will still be there. The rest be thankful they are gone. We have to make our own mistakes, regardlesss our friend's... they will make enough on their own. Remember.. be a true friend... when they make mistakes... be there for them.
2007-03-14 16:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL:
HER:apologize to her and say you want t get back together with her. give her a gift.
FRIENDS:tell them all the good thing about her and maybe they"ll reconsider
2007-03-14 16:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal, then think about it agian.
and your friends aren't being v. supportive about the way you are feeling.
unless if you aren't telling them
2007-03-14 16:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't improve if you dont move on...don't just stay there thinking if you should or shoudn't. Even though its hard, just go.
2007-03-14 16:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by blahblahbloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another woman and use visualization techniques.
2007-03-14 16:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jack K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has moved on guess you should too.
2007-03-14 16:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋