I know what those boys want, that’s how my daughter was born in the 1st place!
2007-03-14 16:01:45 · 22 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Teach her the down falls. You being a man, use yourself as the example of what men are like at her age. Teach her the difference between love and lust and how most boys do NOT know the difference. Teach her of pregnancy, protection, and marriage. Most of all, don't act as if there will be punishment for doing any of these but there will be disappointment. Disappointment leads her to care what you think but punishment causes rebellion, and you know what happens next.
2007-03-14 16:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not the boys, its your daughter. Do you think that you were that much of a suave guy to begin with which lead up to your daughters birth? The woman has to say no, which will usually make the guy go else where, otherwise you have a whole new problem on your hands, that could get you prison time.
Just explain to your daughter that boys are really gay, and the only reason they want to have sex with a girl is to prove they arent, when in fact they always go back to guys, so if she has sex, it will have been done for no purpose what so ever. A complete waste of her time. Yeah that might work, I might have to tell my niece that when she gets older.
Another thing you can do is explain to her the statistics now a days for teenage sex, and convince her it is more cool to be a non statistic period. Becuase honestly being a statistic is the worst thing you could ever be in life, aside from a murderer, rapist or pedophile, but those are gimmies.
2007-03-14 16:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by David K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is you can't stop your daughter if she wants to have a boyfriend or to date someone. If you are too strict with her she would rebel against you! Try to educate her on the world she faces and warn her of guys that are only after her body. After all You of all people should know! And hey don't forget there are still guys who are honest and have clean intentions so do scare all the good ones along with the bad ones! hahaha....Have an open communication with your girl so that if ever a problem arises she can confide in you. goodluck
2007-03-14 16:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, completely understand. The most important thing is to make sure that your daughter is the one you talk to because shes going to be the one with the ability to say no or yes to everything you're scared of happening. Try your (or her mothers) best to make sure she knows what kind of boys are bad and for what reasons. If you've done a good job in raising her with the right values there shouldnt be a problem.
2007-03-14 16:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by radiancia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yo bro i know where ur coming from- scare tatics sometimes work but u need a real attention getter something that really speaks to them. So any guy u think is messing around or flirting with ur baby girl, u pull them aside and simple explain that if anything other than talking goes on , you'll straight out castrate- him- oh his ears will poke up really fast and he'll learn
2007-03-14 16:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Leo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant stop her but u can educate her.
either u or her mother need to talk to her tell about the risks involved not just pregnancy theres alot of scarey sexually transmitted diseases. show her stuff online about aids, herpes or the most common hpv virus 80% of people have this and wont even know they do. then ask her what she wants to protect herself for example the pill. if she wants to go on it then take her now even if she says shes not ready for sex now the pill takes at least a month before it works and putting her on it isnt encouraging sex its about protecting her.
2007-03-14 16:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck to ya brother. I already lost one daughter to a boy. Now the last one is threatening to marry one of em. If you figure it out will you get back to me?
2007-03-14 16:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by MeanKitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shave her head and make her wear an "Indigo Girls" concert shirt. Buy her a Jeep Liberty and send her to Agnes Scott College.
2007-03-14 16:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't. You just have to believe that what you taught her for 18 years has stuck in her head and that she will make the right decision.
2007-03-14 16:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mr Dean. Give her lots of books that show every angle and scenario so she uses her mind instead of quick instincts or however one puts it.
2007-03-14 16:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋