my bf just broke up with me...and i dont know wat to feel,at first i was sad,then mad...and now i just dont want to live anymore...i cant stop crying,i loved him so much.i just want the pain to go away...but it wont,i need help...idk wat to do to feel better.
2007-03-14 15:58:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry you're hurting but I promise you life will go on and you'll find someone else. In the meantime, have a good cry, get angry, put everything he gave you away so it's not a constant reminder, and just remember that you have a family and friends that love you. The last thing you deserve is some guy that doesn't feel the same way you do about him. You deserve better than that and one day you'll find it! In the meantime, take it one day at a time.
2007-03-14 16:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should open up the yellow pages of your phone book in the very front and call a crisis line and talk to someone a couselor that is on call. I also think that you should get some couseling to help you deal with all the emotions of grieving over loosing someone you loved. Its very hard and we all have to experience the bad or how would we know what it is like to experience all the good and all the love and positivity in the world. Volunteer somewhere that makes you happy, with a vet, or hospital or disabled children or reading to the elderly. It helps fill the time and makes you feel good at the same time. Be careful with yourself you are overly emotional and need to give yourself some time to grieve and we all grieve just to find the love all over again, because we need it. Take care Heather
2007-03-14 23:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear, be strong.
i know exactly how u feel. my boyfriend just broke up with me 3 weeks ago, and i also had the feeling that i didnt wanna live anymore. Everything reminds me about him, i dreamt of him, i cried all the nights. u may feel the pain and ache in your heart. I feel the same. This is NORMAL. ok? i dont know how to help u, but just wanna let u know that u're NOT ALONE to get over this ok?
i'm also having a hard time like you. But calm down and think what was wrong in the relationship. You know human is rational, everyone wants happiness. If your bf was really happy and comfortable with you, he wouldnt have to leave u. he leaves you means that he's not really so happy with you. So if u love him, let him go, let him look for his happiness.
I know it doesnt help if i ask u to let him go and to move on. But believe me, ur gonna feel better, and i'm with u. You can talk to me if you need a listener, just drop me a line.
Be strong! live better, be more beautiful... make him regret!
2007-03-14 23:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get some help quick! Don't ever feel like losing your life over some loser! He wasn't worth it. Believe me, I was there. It hurts but only for a season. Trust me, before you know it-it will be over and you will be like, "He made me feel like what!!???" Hang out with friends, family and take long drives by yourself to think and grab onto yourself. He is not worth your life!!!!! No guy is. Good luck. Keep your head up.
2007-03-14 23:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mir3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and prepare to wallow. You get at least a day in your pajamas to cry and be upset and watch TV.
And then you get on with your life. It takes time to get over someone, especially when your relationship ends out of nowhere. Call your friends for support and know you will get over this.
2007-03-14 23:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
you need some girl time the weekend get two of you best friends and some girl moves, buy some new nail polish, and make up, some ice cream,order some pizzas and have a girls weekend, if you are a teen ask your parents first so that you wont get in trouble, mom will understand.
2007-03-14 23:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat a big carton of chocolate ice cream! lol jk! Try doing things to keep your mind off him. It's okay to be mad and sad, but you just have try to be positive. It's hard but eventually you will get over him. just give it time. Soon you will find someone else you love! Good luck! â¥â¥â¥
2007-03-14 23:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab a few girlfriends and some chocolate
have a good old gossip and i'm sure your friends will have some tales to tell about how they didnt really like him anyway
within a coupld of hours you'll be fine
I know it feels like the end of the world - but beleive me - a broken hear mends and becomes tougher
2007-03-14 23:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by no_skank76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Go have your hair done. Do something fun that you really like and stop being so melodramatic. He doesn't care and nothing you do to hurt yourself will change anything. So start enjoying the rest of your life.
2007-03-14 23:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you go out with all your girlfriends and have a girls Night out/in. Have a slumber party and just have fun. Getting over a boy is pretty easy when he is off your mind.
2007-03-14 23:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by thelocalgirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋