So i really like this guy and i found out that he likes me two and i also found out that he likes this other girl. So anyways one day he tells his friend to talk to me about what he was going to do and his friends like " if he went with the other girl and broke up with her would you still go out with him?" I didnt know what too say so i didnt answer. But the next week i found out that he asked that girl out and she said yes. So they go out now and i dont know what to do! I want to be with him but hes taken! Should i wait and stay single or should i go with someone i like (but not as much as i like him) or should i try and break them up or something??? HELP HELP!!
2007-03-14 15:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by filipino_chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am assuming you are young, Here are your options:
l. Wait until he breaks up with the other girl
2. Date someone else
3. Try to break them up . . . . . . . . hmmmmmmmmm. Get a clue, never, never sit around waiting to live your life until someone else feels like dating you. Never, ever, never try to break someone else up -- negative behavior will bite you in the butt later. So that just leaves date someone else. You may find that you stop liking guy #1 when you start liking someone else. Good luck -k-
2007-03-14 16:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by kbama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT TRY TO BREAK THEM UP! You don't want a rep as a home-wrecker! Forget him--he's obviously wanting his cake and eat it, too. Figure, if he chose you, what makes you think he wouldn't dump you for the next girl he gets a crush on? He doesn't know what he wants and is not ready for a real relationship. You don't need that and if the guy you like now is available, you could see where it goes, but don't start something if you can't commit to it or you'd be no better than the other guy.
2007-03-14 15:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go date other people. If you're second is his mind then screw him. You should go for someone who wants you, and only you. you don't want to be someones second choice. If he comes back to you after he breaks up with her and you're still single, you could think about it, but it just doesn't seem right to me.
2007-03-14 15:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Chris W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't break them up. That's catty. And if he does break up with her and then goes to you, is it because he wants to be with you or are you the rebound girl whose purpose is to make the other girl jealous? If I were you, I'd have fun. Date other people and go nuts. Go get your hair done and make him wish he chose you first.
2007-03-14 15:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by brooklyn152 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes you and went out with someone else? are you kidding me waiting for this guy? go out and move on with someone else..trust me he is not the right one for you if he is making you wait or watever he is doing right now!
if you like him get over with him, hes not the one ure looking for...
2007-03-14 15:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by roxie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
stop mopping over that boy he was playing anyway, find yourself someone to really love. find someone to truly love you and get on with your life,leave the want to be players alone they are trouble.
2007-03-14 15:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, don't hyperventilate! If he's taken, then make yourself available to others, if he was going to use you for a rebound, then he ain't (and I repeat) ain't worth it.
2007-03-14 15:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by BMW 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you?
Because this sounds like middle school drama.
2007-03-14 15:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by iluv_19990 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just go out with him silly
2007-03-14 15:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋