My girlfriend is making me chose between this girl ive been close friends wih for 7 years and her. they are both very close to me but the girl who is just a friend spreads lies about me and her and how i always call her over my girlfriend even though I dont. I care about both of them so much and my girlfriend wont let me have both. Please help me!
I feel my relationship with my girlfriend is falling apart and im not sure what to do.
2007-03-14 15:38:30 · 9 answers · asked by sublime1fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someone who spreads lies about you and ur girlfriend is not worth being called your friend. you can't have both people and the only way to save he relationship with ur galfriend is to let go off your friend.
2007-03-14 15:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are pretty confused. I could help you out. The girl that is just a friend seems like she may get you in trouble with your girlfriend by saying lies that you and her are going out. Try to confront her and say that she has to stop saying that. If your girlfriend won't let you have that girl as your friend think of some pros and cons of her. Start hanging out with your guy buddies more and naturally you will grow apart from that girl. Since I am a girl i know how important it is for the boyfriend and the girlfriend talk alone once a day at least. Not texting or iming but on the phone or in person so that you can reflect on the day and solve problems. This will help you and your girl get tighter and solve your relationship problems. I am sure if you went out of your way to pay attention to your girlfriend and make her feel her very best your problems will smooth out. Have a serious talk with her about the bumps in the road and you can settle them easily. Hope i helped!! ttyl
2007-03-14 15:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by syddbabe<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a few different issues. First the girl speading lies is not acting like a friend. Second maybe your girlfriend telling you a good idea because she sees your friend is a liar. You need to make sure your "Friend" is a "Real Friend" and your girlfriend feels the way she really should. If your relationship with your girlfriend is falling apart because of her and you then maybe you should end it, but if it's falling apart because of your friend you need to talk with her. Right now it seems like your having problems with communication between the two girls
2007-03-14 15:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl who is lying to break u and you're girl up obviously likes you (why else try to get you single.) She's also a liar though; so no. If you're relationship is on the rocks, but you love her and want to make it work, then you'll probably have to get rid of the other girl. Even if you leave your current girl, don't get with the long-time friend. If she lied about you she'll lie to you. Don't get rid of a good thing to jump on something you're not sure will work.
2007-03-14 15:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by WTF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the girl who is just a friend likes you for more then just a friend and is trying to cause problems with you and your girlfriend. If you love girlfriend, take a break away from this so called friend who lies, and give you and your GF a chance.
2007-03-14 15:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... if that girl ur friend is spreading rumors about u and ur girfriend then maybe she is just jealouse...or maybe she isnt even a friend i mean no REAL friend will spread rumours about another friend would they? and ur girlfriend shouldnt make u choose is she that jealouse?
does this help a little?
if not im sorry and good luck with ur problem
2007-03-14 15:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FRIEND IS JEALOUS OF GIRLFRIEND!!! Keep the girlfriend.
Normally I'd choose the friend, but this friend seems like the bitter type.
2007-03-14 15:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by Amber _rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like this girl isn't right for you if she can't accept your friends! i think u should end it and stay with your true friend! Good luck! I'll be praying for you!
2007-03-14 15:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take either. They both sound like they are taking advantage of you.
2007-03-14 15:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kirstin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋