I recently turned 16 and the night after my birthday, my girlfriend and I did it...... Was it too fast and should I have waited?
(We only dated for a year)
2007-03-14 15:31:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
queen.... you can't get aids if we both were virgins...... unless you like to share blood?
2007-03-14 15:37:42 · update #1
I used a condom and she used the morning after pill
2007-03-14 15:40:02 · update #2
You should have waited until your wedding night.
2007-03-14 15:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tom B 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You have to decide if it was too early. I dated a guy for 4 months and we had sex for the first time when I was 16. As long as it's protected sex, and you are aware of the facts about sex, the decision is yours.
People think that sex has to be all about love and marriage, but really, what if you wait til your 30, get married and have sex for the first time, and you find out that you just don't click. If you test the waters first, gain some experience, you can find that love that you can connect with mentally, and physically.
You should always be careful. You must have been ready since it's been a year.
2007-03-14 22:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by MentalCaseMaggot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 is a fine age to lost your virginity as long as it meant something. and dating a year, i'd say you 2 are pretty committed to each other (especially for teenagers). i cant say for sure since i dont know how either of you feels for each other, but i'd say y'all did just fine :) (although taking a morning after pill mighta been a bit too much :P just have her go on regular birth control and still use a condemn!) good luck
2007-03-14 22:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by fear of the dark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, thats depending on your feelings for eachother... did the relationship last?? only you can tell if it was too soon but it kinda sounds like it was for you because you are on here asking the question. there is really nothing you can do now to get back ur virginity, but be a little more careful next time and dont just jump into it!!
2007-03-14 22:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is a question that only you can answer b/c its how u feel and if u are starting to think u should have waited then maybe u should have but i cant tell u yes or no it is really how u to are feeling about it
2007-03-14 22:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many believe you can give virginity back. I, however, do not. You are now in the realm of being a responsible adult. Don't get carried away kid.
2007-03-15 22:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u can't wait till ur wedding night which is more interesting n exciting?unprotected sex can be a havoc even if u r virgin.take care.
2007-03-14 22:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You started it! If your sexual experience was enjoyable, you shouldn't even question your decision. It's all up to you to put it on hold. Otherwise, it will be a whole new ball game. Good luck!
2007-03-14 22:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by MaTriX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too early. You both are too young for any possible consequences, like dropping out of school b.c. pregnancy. But I hope you were mature enough to use protection.
2007-03-14 22:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Luna 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
that is a total personal choice. if it felt right to you then no. 16 is a good age and it is often and rare to find a guy good enough to wait that long into a relationship.
2007-03-14 22:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ally 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Do you think it was too fast? Do you have regrets about it? You're the only one who can answer this question.
2007-03-14 22:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by Lucie<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋