real depressed?

Question

i m/ced about 6 months ago.. i was so excited about my pregnancy..(i never felt it could happen and then boom there i was pregnant) (it was on the first time too)! and just as fast as it came...it went away... everyone around me has had there babies and getting pregnant and it kills me.... ive gained probably 10 pounds and what hurts the most is we never told my husbands family and his dad just asked me if i was pregnant cuz i was getting bigger and bigger.. :(... man it hurts... i know i know... it wasnt meant to be... it will happen... thats what i hear... it doesnt help me feel better... and here i am waiting it out....again waiting for my period not to come... 3 days b4 hopefully it doesnt come so i can take this stupid test.. im afraid to start dieting becuz i dont know im pregnant... how do i cope?what did u find helped the best to get pregnant... my last period was feb 24 and i had intercourse the 3rd the 7th and the 10th is it good to spread em out that far?... is it better if

.....goes just once? (he can go multiple times in a day) or is it good to go more than once in a day? (becuz of the quality of sperm)

why we do it so far between cuz ya never know when ur going to ovulate... so sperm quality is better if u abstain has any1 found info about sperm quality and how ur chance would increase to wait?

Answer 1

You need to see a therapist. Just talking to one will help you out. I've been though the same thing I've miscarried twice. My sister in-law five times. See your doctor the both of you to make sure everything is OK. sperm count your blood type..ect. Sometimes things just happen and you don't know why, but don't worry it will happen for you when you least expect it. Good Luck!