we could talk the whole day, but im just not attracted to him. i feel guilty bcoz i can tell he was really hopeful and i just gave him a hug with a pat...last year, i was attracted to this person but we couldnt hold a conversation....cant i have both?! have you been thru this..this is so weird...
2007-03-14 15:30:35 · 7 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you end up with a guy that you have a great connection with but nothing more, its going to be a passionless relationship. Steady, but boring. So what's more important for you- grabbing the first guy you can stay with and feel safe, or waiting for "the one?"
2007-03-14 15:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by broadway_enthusiast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, inorder to have a good relationship you need to be able to communicate with that person, but also there has to be some sense of attraction. Believe me you will know when the right person comes along.
2007-03-14 15:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been through this b4 i was atracted 2 sum1 but in the end i wasnt c he wasnt my type anyways i told him the truth that wasnt attracted 2him that i like him like a friend n if he couldnt have me as a friend then we shouldnt talk any more my guess u should do the same yea u can have both by being honest with him but think about b4 u do
2007-03-14 15:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you can have both but it all depends on the chemistry. Maybe you are being alittle too picky. Or maybe your looking in the wrong place for the right person. Best of luck, peace.
2007-03-14 15:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that communicating is a big thing that with that emotions can eventually arise and you could start to become attracted to him, so be careful, it happened to me. Remember looks are not always what count!
2007-03-14 15:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first connection was friendship, the second was lust. It happens both ways. You can have both, but you have to find the right person.
2007-03-14 15:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking they are out there.
2007-03-14 15:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋