Started seeing a guy, he has IM messages from women popping up all over his computer screen while Im cleaning his house, and a category intitled "biotches" with at least 100 womens names on it.. No problem, we are not exclusive, and I was not into him that much anyway, figured friends was cool enough. So he im's me one day calling me a biotchazz and telling me to come over and give him a BJ. I told him off via e mail, to never disrespect me like that, he said I needed a sense of humor..SO....I had my sister create a profile on a dating website, he of course responded, acted all classy and nice. he invited me over earlier in the day, than online invited my sister not knowing it was my sister, told me when I called him that he got invited to a BBQ at the last minute. My sister im'ed him and asked "Am i going to the BBQ?" So when he thought about it, he figured he got busted. Now he is mad at me telling me he did not think my sense of humor was funny...what do you think of this guy ????
2007-03-14 15:26:44 · 35 answers · asked by kimmy3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think my payback was right on or what ? Calling me demanding a BJ, and gets bent out of shape cause he got busted trying to cancel our time together cause he got invited elsewhere, he didnt even invite me to go along, he blatently LIED right to my face. I think the Flocker got what he deserved !
2007-03-14 15:29:55 · update #1
He is an idiot and i am sitting hear laughing because you got him back really good. I am personally very proud to see you stick up for yourself. Never make things vendictive, but everyone needs to learn a lesson now and then and this was a good one. Take care Heather
2007-03-14 15:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was the best one I have seen thank you.
First off, started seeing this guy and you are cleaning his apartment ? Way Wrong. Apartment cleaning is for when you are living together. I would never let a girl come and clean my place, it's nice to offer I guess, unless he is such a slob and you cant stand to be there and you want to come over so it is a compulsion thing....but still no.
Obviously he is playing you and others. Find someone else, preferably someone with a clean apartment.
What you and your sister did was awesome. I had a girlfriend who made a date with a guy I worked with and he told me, so we went to the bar together and were siting beside each other at the bar when she walked up to him, she didn't notice me, then he said, I'd like you to meet my friend. You should have seen her face, I laughed my butt off it was too funny. You and your sister did good.
Find a new Guy.
Maybe I shouldn't tip you off about Guy's but we are all in this together. As a man, the best defense is a good offense.
If a man is caught he will try to turn it around by using a good offense, get mad or blame you.
It's just our nature...sorry. Oh except for me of course :)
2007-03-14 15:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by D'Artagnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he got exactly what he deserves. It's obvious that both of you were aware that you weren't exclusive, yet he still chose to lie. It's funny how guys always want you to do what they say. He said "get a sense of humor" but I bet he didn't like being the @ss of the joke. Serves him right.
2007-03-14 15:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly, this guy has no respect for you or any women. I say let this buddy hit the curb. You don't need his stupid loserness to rub off on you. You deserve better and don't take no crap.
2007-03-14 15:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by punk389467 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a jerk and so are you. So yeah, he says crude things and you call him on it. That's fair. But then you do around and have your sister pull **** for you? That's not funny, hon, that's distrustful.
Back away from men until you can learn how to treat people with respect. And learn how to play a real trick that doesn't hurt people, like shortsheeting the bed or something.
2007-03-14 15:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He sounds like a major jerk to me. He thinks he's slick but he really isn't. He thinks your sense of humor wasn't funny? What about his? Lose the dud.
2007-03-14 15:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lyzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a PIG. Do you actually think all those girls are just friends. He probably never intended to actually have a relationship with you. You were a booty call to him. If you want my opinion say you give him a taste of your foot up his butt.
2007-03-14 15:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you cleaning the house of a man who considers women as 'biotches'? are you surprised that you caught him being a player? cut that jerk loose and find a real man.
2007-03-14 15:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a relationship with him outside of friends. He lied to you and was being VERY rude!! No woman should ever be called a b****! It was very wrong!
2007-03-14 15:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a complete and total jerk. That's pretty funny and clever of you and your sister! Glad you caught him.
2007-03-14 15:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by SuperGeek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋