theres this guy in 2 of my classes that i can TOTALLY tell likes me,but i dont really like him.then theres this REALLY HOT GUY IN 1 OF MY CLASSES THAT I really like!!!!!!!!!!wat do i do???????
2007-03-14 15:17:00 · 13 answers · asked by ♥ Blondie ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
l2spell, first of all.
No question about it: go for the one you like. BUT, be smart about it. You can still use the second guy (the poor sap that likes you).
If you play your cards well, you can get the a$$hat to buy you gifts, drive you around and do your chores AND still get the hot one you like. The trick is to keep the other one (the mouth-breather; the one that likes you) in the 'friends zone'. Tell him you like him, but just as a friend.
But really, I shouldn't be telling you all this; you're the woman, not me.
2007-03-14 15:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ahmad S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go for the guy who likes you but you don't like him, there is a good chance that you will just have to break his heart later. Go for the guy who you like. If it doesn't work out with him at least you will not have your desire for him clouding your vision of another possible "Mr. right".
On the other side of this I married a guy who I was less interested in than other "hot" guys and we have been married for 22 years. We love each other very much and have a solid relationship-not that we did not have our problems in the beginning.
Weigh out the pros and cons about both guys and try to picture what you want your life to be like in 20 years.
2007-03-14 22:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to the guy that you don't really like, but don't lead him on .Others notice when you're mean to some one,even
if you don't like them.Try striking up a conversation with Mr. hot, but act cool and don't come on to strong or he will think
you are a nut case. Don't be TOO obvious. just let him know you like him and give him a little room and time to check you out. guys like to think they are in control when it comes to relationships. Good luck.
2007-03-14 22:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jackolantern 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one you really want. Who cares if someone likes you, especially if you dont like them, it would be a waste of time to be with them. If you be with a person you like, then you will feel happy. But I think you are just liking the hot guy for his looks instead of liking for who he really is.
2007-03-14 22:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to tell you what is the right thing to do morally because if i said what i wanted to on this then ppl might send some hate mail or something crazy like that but the "moral" thing to do would be to go for the guy that you really like and not the other guy because you dont like him..... sorry i cant really be specific but most girls dont "use" the other guy to make the guy you really like jealous lol
2007-03-14 22:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i notice that u use the word "like" not "love" when expressing ur affection with others.so it seems to indicate that u pay more attention to the looks.
don't go for looks,they cheat.it takes a minute to get a crush on someone,an hour to like someone,and a day to love someone,but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
so plz think it over.
2007-03-14 23:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by the little Gerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the guy you really like because if you go for the guy that really likes you and you don't like him back then you won't be happy in the relationship and it won't work out. so i suggest that you try your luck on the hot guy! hope this helps!
2007-03-14 22:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by ~ *Amber* ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that you need to get to kno both of them....looks dont define a person or their personality although its definately the way you begin to look at the person...dont make any rush decisions just yet....take ur time and get to kno thyem an d then make ur decision from there
and be careful, dont jump into anything
2007-03-14 22:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is probably neither. if u don't like the guy that likes u that rules him out. but if u just like the other guy for his looks dont go with him either
2007-03-14 22:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by flash_am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one you like. Even if he screws you over at least you won't go for that type of guy again.
2007-03-14 22:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by John G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋