Hi everyone, I've been really depressed over this issue lately, I'm now 30 years old and never had a girlfriend a day in my life. I was always told by everyone I'm not good looking enough and it has caused me not only to be very lonely but to have no friends what so ever. I've been made an outcast, more people know me as the 30 year old virgin then know me by my name.
I've never felt loved by anyone or even liked for who I am, people think I'm a morron because I like old cars and old music. Restoring classic cars is always been my passion I've had many through the years. I like to think of myself as being pretty educated I took auto and engine shop in high school to learn to work on cars. I went to college and have a great job as a railroad engineer. I used to not think I was to bag looking I've always been athetic and slim, 150lbs blue eyes and think sandy blond hair. But every girl I've ever tryed to ask out since I was 15 has in one way or another told me I wasn't good looking.
2007-03-14
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Larry L
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're asking out the wrong girls! Try finding a club for cars - I know GTOs have a huge club and get involved and meet people with your same interests. Even if you have married girl "friends" from that or whatever club, they'll probably have single friends they'll want you to meet after they find out what a nice smart guy you are. : ) And don't give up. Just go for the nicer maybe not as pretty on the outside girls.
2007-03-14 15:22:47
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answered by SuperGeek 3
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Find new friends. You don't need to be around people who drag you down just because of how you look or how your life has been.
Maybe join a car restoration club, or a classic car club around your area or on the internet. You may meet a lady who likes the same things you do and won't care about your appearance!
2007-03-14 15:26:50
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answered by loz_chyna 3
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well don't give up its been 15 years for me not having a boyfriend i say i am not pretty but everyone degrees but then again i still dint get one!!
i think all i can do is live life to its fullest and when the right person is there and its will feel good because i waited!!
even through waiting is driving me insane!!
i will have fun with friends , family and think i am healthy and can use my functions!!
so i think all you can do is live the way you were planed to maybe you were meant to wait!!!
don't listen to those people they just don't have have time for there lives and pick on people who probable have better love lives without the fighting or drama!!!!
and single life is fun at parties you cant go wrong even through most of mine are family parties i bet you can go clubbing!!!
i hope this helps!!
don't change who you are for others it puts you at there level and thats the worst thing you can do!!
be yourself and wait for your time to shine!!!!
2007-03-14 15:39:55
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answered by purplegirl1516 2
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You should try to find someone who have the same things in common as you do. Just be confident and dont give up. One night just go out and play the field. If you get rejected dont worry just keep trying. You seem nice and their are a lot of women out there who dont pick guys based on just looks!
2007-03-14 15:23:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Hey!
First of all...
Forgetttt all those losers who said you're not good looking enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
They're fags!
They always will be if they're tryin to bring ya down.
You sound nice to me
Maybe get a makeover.
Change your appearance and the way you dress.
Did you watch the movie "40 year old virign"? if not, you should...
You have to be at the right time when the right girl comes along, dont be shy or you'll never get a girl.
Ask her to hang out sometime.
Then go from there
Good luck and tell thsoe fags to lay off your back.
2007-03-14 15:26:40
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answered by confused aspen 1
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Aww. I think you'd be great. The women there just can't see it. I know you'll find someone. Don't be depressed and kill yourself over this... I'm sure one day someone will step up to you and love you for you. Not if you look good or not. :x Really, good luck though, I feel you would know how to treat another woman. ^^
2007-03-14 15:23:21
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answered by Fae 2
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u should try to be open minded towards ur live n always optimistic.don't always focus only in ur hobby n lock urself in the shell everyday.try to play games n exercise or join some social work as well as taking part in party n karaoke.don't always feel upset cos of ur looking which is only 30% ,the other 70% is ur heart(love).always smile n friendly as well as sympathetic,then i do believe someone(opposit sex) w'd approach u n love u one day.be confident n patient.good luck.may god bless u.
2007-03-14 15:34:54
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answered by robert KS LEE. 6
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Well don't let people define you, because when you let them you are given them too much power. You are unique just like everyone else and deserve to experience love, you have to put yourself out there too, go out, mingle the more you inhibit yourself the more you will let time pass and your princess will not be able to find you. Girls love confidence!! Their is someone for everyone. we are our own worst critics remember that what you see is not necessarily what someone else sees. Keep your head up!!
2007-03-14 15:26:06
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answered by Breann 5
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Don't give up. There are plenty of mature women that have given up trying to find Mr. Handsome and are looking for someone of value.
2007-03-14 15:23:34
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answered by October 7
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No, don't ever give up!
You have good credentials, and are a strong individual who has made it this far without depending on anyone.
Physical beauty is superficial
2007-03-14 15:33:37
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answered by kook 3
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