1) I would like to find a friend first, that would like to spend sometime with me, not take me out once and think they know me, spend a little time to get to know me..
2) then a lover to except me for who I am, not for who he can change me into..who will romance me on every date as if it was the first date and not forget what is important over time
3) Then a partner that just might cherish me forever. no lies no playing games.
just live care free...
.I'd like to feel excitment everytime I think of my man. and he of me...
Even though I am an independent women, I'd like to feel like he is willing to take care of me in all aspect of life.
now let me ask Is there a such a thing any more?....Or is it to much to ask?
If you have the answer, let me know...
2007-03-14 15:07:22 · 8 answers · asked by peachpuzzah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after 5 years in a hard relationship i ask myself the same questions sometimes and ive realized my answer is yes...there is someone out there for me as long as i am positive enough to believe that there is..... i think we need to stop looking for things and just become friends with the men we meet in our lives many of the problems in relationships are that we skip over the whole being friends thing and go straight to a relationship which can not function without a solid friendship to back it up...be positive...live your life and dont look for this man evreywhere..when it is supposed to be...this man will be right in front of you..he may be sum1 u just met..or someone uve known for years...be positive and just hope for the best....everyone has a prince out there...and im very positive that no matter what i believe that you can not think the worst about any situation...these things will come to you when you stop looking for them
2007-03-14 15:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you've basically just described the perfect guy... The thing is... Most guys aren't perfect. I'm not saying he's not out there, but I doubt if you'll ever find one this well-rounded. Instead, we have to accept our partners for who they are. No guy is born knowing all this stuff off the bat, they learn from experience. So find a guy who treats you good, loves you back, and the rest will fall into place.
2007-03-14 22:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe all things are possible once you set your mind to it. Your lover is still human and has bad days the same as you, so maybe for everyday to be all bed and roses might be a little extreme.
2007-03-14 22:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one sounds good, two is a bit out there, but three is great, if you are patient and know how to seperate the sheep from the goats.
2007-03-14 22:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as asking for too much in your men! you know what you want and thats good! not everyone not everyone can do that! but when you find him, see if he has a brother!
2007-03-14 22:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you just have to find them one will come along soon. give it time been look en 5 years.i want what you want. man o man its hard to find a good one. thy are all over. most of the good ones have the bad ones . time time give it time
2007-03-14 22:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are men out there like that. where to find them is anyones guess. i found mine where i worked. lol he came in a total of 37 times one day. and thats when i didnt like him. lol be patient. he will show up.
2007-03-14 22:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is if you are open to it...
2007-03-14 22:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋