i'm on a hockey team with 2 boys i have a crush on niether of them won't ask me out, i can tell both of them like me.
2007-03-14 14:25:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't ask them out 'cause i'm scared!!!
duh? >=(
2007-03-14 14:38:11 · update #1
i don't ask them out 'cause i'm scared!!!
duh? >=(
2007-03-14 14:38:46 · update #2
Wait until you get checked in a game. The guy that stands up for you first (perhaps by biffing the opposition) is the most deserving of you. Then you have a perfect opportunity to express your gratitude by asking him out afterwards.
2007-03-14 14:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by wesley j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself available. Flirt with him a little bit and mention something you would like to do but none of your other friends want to go do it. It works with anything, just say there is a movie you want to see, that you want to go to the new underage club, learn to rollerblade, whatever. Pick something you know he is into and say "Wow, that is cool, I wish I knew how to do that!" If he is interested then he will ask you to do it with him.
You may have to do it a couple of times before he thinks to ask you. (He might be at home kicking himself that night for not thinking to ask you out right away!). Be prepared to give him a couple of chances. The best part is you can do this without looking desperate. All you need to do is be available.
2007-03-14 14:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some advice: I really respect courage in a girl. If you are confident that they both like you, what have you got to lose? Maybe they are shy, too, and just wish you would ask them first. Are you friends with them? If not, I would start as friends. Once you get to know them better, give it time and maybe something will develop.
Well, I hope I could help you. Let me know how it goes. :)
Peace out! ~ Neil Rawson '07
2007-03-14 14:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't "get a boy to ask you out". It's not done that way. You have to give them time, and let them figure out how they want this to work. Don't play hard to get, as some people seem to think does the trick. If you do, they'll think you're not interested and back off.
2007-03-14 14:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by AnneMarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha I'd like to know the same thing...
If you're a teen or below (im 16 myself) some boys are just not that mature. They would probably be sucky boy friends anyway.
If you are interested, pick one and flirt with him. If that doesn't work, flirt with the other one.
Or if you are brave, you could ask them out. And why not?
2007-03-14 14:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if both of them do like you then just pick which ever one you love more and date him. If you are not 100% sure that both boys do like you then pull in a question like "so boys what do you guys look for in a girl" and then you should get an idea of which to pick.
2007-03-14 14:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them if they want to do something? Casually. It's that simple. You obviously have something in common with both of them.
2007-03-14 14:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gotta sit back and play hard to get. Guys love having to chase after what they want. You gotta act like you could car less if they asked you out, and then they will come to you like moths to the light
2007-03-14 14:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is not the 70's or 80' anymore.. its ok for a girl to ask a guy out... they will be more impressed and flattered than you think... guys love assertive women.
2007-03-14 14:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just dreaming...ask them out first if you're not dreaming.
2007-03-14 14:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by I Know Nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋