I love him to death, but every once in a while, I catch him looking at another girl. I hate it so much, and we always get into a huge fight that ends in me crying and him apologizing. I just don't know what to do. He is always looking at other girls breasts and butts, acting like I'm not even there or like I am just a friend. He has even told me which of my friends he thinks are hot. I don't know what to do. Is there anything I can do? Or is it just the way guys are.
2007-03-14 14:21:05 · 9 answers · asked by Lior 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with looking b/c i am sure you do the same thing. But....he is wrong for looking at woman and telling you with of your GF are hot. He needs to grow up. you are the one with him not the ones that he is looking at. Has he cheated on you already? tell him it bothers you and grow up. If he doesn't start looking at guys and see how he likes it. ha ha.
2007-03-14 14:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, this is an immature guy who maybe a perv or a player. If a guy truely loves you, he would never ever look at anyone else except for you! He would always be thinking of you when, even if he was looking at other girls. Anyway, thats how a lot of men are and its natural for most guys to just stare at other women even if they are with their gfs. I wouldnt worry much about that. But the fact that he has said your friends are hot would bother me. This is a bad sign because he might make a move on your friends...I dont know its just what I think.
2007-03-14 21:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he already understands how this is makin you feel obviously sitting down and talking might not help
as i said in your other question though you might wanna try going to a counselor but if not theres not much you can do.
no its not the way guys are. guys do have this nature of looking at other girls...but they shouldnt disregard anothers feelings. you need to put your foot down and tell him that this is bothering you...i mean really tell him. be assertive but dont be aggressive meaning say like alright ive had enough. i care about you alot but i just cant take how youre mistreating me. but dont be violent
but if none of this works out, you might want to take a break from each other or just remain friends.
i know you say you love him but there are other guys out there...and some people can get along better that way. to be around a person all the time, some people cant handle that. this probly just means that he needs some time away from you. again im not saying drop him right away but try seeing less of each other.
2007-03-15 01:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Garbo's snowflake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that, the considerate ones look when they aren't with you. But really...it doesn't seem like a question of trust yet...he doesn't respect you and is immature. Having said that...in the future trust will be an issue if you stay in this situation.
2007-03-14 21:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you need to chill. so what if he hot rated your friends, thats called being funny. i mean dont you ever see a guy that your not with and maybe just a little deep down your like "man he's got a sweet butt" Am i right.
2007-03-14 21:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by killedheart101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes disrespecting you and regardless of how much you love him or think you love him...you need to stick up for your self...if hes looking at other girls in front of you, whose to say that hes not touching them n cheating on you when ur not around? i just tihnk hes taking advantage of you...you need to stick up for yourself...things only happen to you if you let them...best of luck hun
2007-03-14 21:50:43 · answer #6 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well boys will be boys but you have to go with your gut feeling think about his good qualitys and bad qualitys if he only has soem bad things i would stick with him because not everyone is perfect!
2007-03-14 21:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think that's disrespectful,if he's going to look he shouldn't he shouldn't make it seam so obvious
2007-03-14 21:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by ddreaddsjr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, please.... Just leave the poor boy alone already.
2007-03-14 21:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋