OK this boi he yust to like me well its been about 2 yrs and i still like him but he has a g/f well we jus started talking agian and he acts like he has feelings for me...but the question is should i txt him or should he txt me, like should i go for him or should he come to me??PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-03-14 14:19:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND....do not touch him. It matters nothing that you like him, if you take him away from her, someone will take him away from you.
That is one, the other thing a girl must always allow the boy to make the first move....OK you can encourage him, but still he needs to make the first step...if you do, he will not build the same respect for you and will through it in your face that you chased after him at the first fight...you must be smart.
2007-03-22 05:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ariana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated situation you have there...Why is this guy showing "interest" in you if he has a g/f? My advice- let him make the first move, and try to find out what his motives are. Does he want to dump the g/f? Is he still interested in you, or does he only want a friend to talk to? And please do yourself a favor....keep in mind that everyone has issues in the "romance" department--but it seems to me your energy might be better spent on your school work. After all, you spelled BOY wrong...that is a three letter word. Men come and go in every woman's life, but what lasts forever is working on your education.
2007-03-14 21:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by starcrssdlover 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your having guy troubles, I'm the perfect guy to give you advice. You should make some small subtle moves because perhaps he is waiting for you just as you are waiting for him. And if you're both waiting, nothing is gonna happen. Don't be too out there, just give him some subtle clues and hints that you're interested and see if there's any response. and then just take it from there.
2007-03-14 21:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Def. let him come to you, usually it flops when the girl pursues the guy because it takes all the competitiveness out of "the game" for the guy...because guys are naturally programmed "to win"
2007-03-22 21:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by LuvUrGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally think that the guys should make the first moves. I mean, if you make all the first moves he's going 2 think u r easy, and not even try. play hard to get, he'll go after you eventually.
2007-03-14 21:24:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sweetie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should come to you if he plans on breaking up with his gf because if not then he is a cheater and you really don't want one of those. Anyhoo, he should come to you and not you to him...you might look desperate.
2007-03-14 21:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by uniqueapplepickingprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wait 4 him
2007-03-14 21:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by Josh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time worrying, just call him and talk to him,life is to short to beat around the bush(waste time) get to the point.
2007-03-14 21:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by i tell it like it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a GF. what of you were that girl. would you like another girl trying to get your man? move on.
2007-03-14 21:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to come to you.
cause if he has a girlfriend & likes you, he would take aside his gf & ask you to be his girlfriend.
2007-03-14 21:22:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋