Is he going to return my engagement ring?

Question

My boyfriend and I of 3 yrs and 7.5 months had a terrible dispute 5 days ago. He purchased my engagemnt ring on Dec. 8th from kay jewlers and had 90 days to return it. He said he was going by there today. I dont know if it was to return my ring or make a payment HELP

Answer 1

I don't understand why you aren't in possesion of it. He bought it three months ago so, what's the hold up? I'm a little concerned here, you get into a fight and he tells you he's going to Kay's Jewelers after you've been in a fight. Either you are reading into it too much or he's playing games.

And weren't the 90 days up on the 8th of this month?

Answer 2

Girl, don't get overwhelmed have u thought it could be that he could be going there 2 get u something else or better. The only way that I think that he would turn it back is if u did somthing outrageous like sleeping withor kissing another man or less he could be just having a nerves breakdown(which is normal) because of friends or him is thinking or telling him this is going to be the LAST person/women that he sleeps with and that this is for real no gameor bull& that he just can't up &leave when ever he wants & you taking vows under GOD and u don't won't to lie to him. Matter of fact you've might have already expserince that or might later. Good luck & remeber not to think to much it could be nothing & starting to look as if u did somthing wrong to make u think that why he's going thier.

Answer 3

I don't think he's going to return it.
He wouldn't want to look like a fool before the shop people.

I think he was just trying to scare you to make you think he was returning and from the look of things, I think he did.

Why would he want to commit to someone for maybe life if at the first instance of an argument he is going to return the engagement ring.
Is he going to return your wedding ring when he is married to you and you have a dispute?

Just take heart, let him cool down and you two can talk about whatever it was you were arguing about.

But remember somebody always has to be the 'fool' in the relationship, so just be coy about it.

Hope you guys work things out and start planning on your wedding day.
All the best.

Answer 4

I would love to help but I cant read minds and all, so you just need to talk to him. But my question to you is are you more worried about the ring or the fact that your b/f of so long had an argument. Honestly material possessions come and go but someone to love well....All I am saying is please dont grieve over a ring, if that is all you are in it for than get out, someone else can get you a ring. As well if you have been with him that long and dont know if he makes rash decisions over arguments or keeps his cool and knows it will work out for example than maybe you need to work on the relationship a little.

Answer 5

Well it depends how mad he is. He might and then regret it later. Not too much you can do about it other than try to mend the relationship. That should be your main concern if you seriously Love him. If you don't seriously Love him you shouldn't be getting married anyways. If you two are truely in Love and he messes up and returns it then regrets it he can always try to get it back ( which will likely cost a bunch more), or buy another one if he can't. The ring itself isn't the be all and end al;l of your relationship. At least I hope not. If it is then you aren't ready to be engaged. I was engaged once. Life circumstances forced us to part though neither of us wanted to. She was going to give me back the ring (and the matching diamond and opal necklace and earrings) when we parted. I made her keep them. I meant it when I gave them to her and I still mean it now. I hope she still has them, though they are hers to do with as she wishes.

Answer 6

well even if he returns it since you know where he bought it you can always go back a buy it yourself...anyways if he returns your ring just cause of a dispute which is common in all relationships what will happen if he marries you and you have a dispute...return you

Answer 7

just ask him if he returned it. in married life you will have disputes all the time. if he cant deal with it and his first reaction is to return your ring....how much can he really love you

Answer 8

That woud be pretty rotten of him. Just for him to make you think it is a really rotten mind game. Just be patient and you'll find out soon enough.

I hate mind games!

Answer 9

Is the ring on your finger?

Answer 10

if you broke up or were a major ***** consider it a gonner. if it was just a tiff and you love each other your all good