Hey
Me and my ex has been dateing for a year.we had a great relationship and hardly never fought.But then i got sick real bad and became really ill cuz of the meds i was on.i talked to her some on the phone but not like we use to.
I missed a Month of school cuz of it. Well last weekend i was gettin ready to come back to skool but out of the blue.she emailed me.it said she wanted to break up and had a change of feelings. i was shocked cuz she was so scaryed of loseing me. we was prefect.
I was upset,cussing and everything,i said "maybe she needs time to think." after cryin all night. Sunday came around and she had me block on MSN and wouldn't take my calls.Next thing u know she's datein someone else. It hurt so bad and it felt like she never loved me.
The guy is bad news and is a huge fan about cheating and sleeping with other girls.Just like her ex before me. we've talked some but everytime i bring up us. she says "she does want to talk about it"
What can i do?
2007-03-14 14:15:14 · 6 answers · asked by wheelerd00d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well her Parents are really strick about seeing her b/f.which we was fine wid.We talked on the phone all the time.She was there for me when i was sick.she visted me at tha hospial when i was in there.
It hurts so bad.The guy is a loser.doesn't go to skool.Does drugs and cheats and i don't know how she can't see it.I feel like we can get back together but not yet.She says when they break up that she'll give me another chance but i dunno how long that can be...
i just don't know wat to do.i'm losein lack of sleep and not eating cuz of it
2007-03-14 14:26:53 · update #1
I got he's Ex to email her and tell her EVERYTHING.even her friends are tellin her and she was in a fight on the bus cuz one of he's ex ex's still loves him.
god i dunno wat to do :(,4 days is way to much
2007-03-14 14:29:20 · update #2
I agree with the lady before me. Love has a way of making you find the right person. My husband is alot like hers. I was diagnosed with multiple sclorosis 4 years ago, and there are times when I can't even walk to the bathroom by myself. My husband will carry me and help me with the whole process. He has even had to give me baths at times. There have been a few times that we will be out in public and I am fine then all of a sudden I can't walk or feed myself and there he is to carry me or to feed me. At first I wouldn't go out because I didn't want people to see me, but I now realize that my husband REALLY loves me and would do anything for me. So I guess what I am trying to say with all of this is....
Let her leave that way the door will open up for the right girl to come through. She sounds like she likes the bad boys and doesn't care who she hurts to get them. My advice would be don't let her hurt you.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 15:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by M.S. Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen 2 months into my marriage i was diagnosed with cancer. my husband who is in the military easily could have had it anulled but instead he sat in the hospital with me every night. we never got to go on a honeymoon but none of it bothers him. and when my hair fell out, i was still the most beautifull girl and any time we were in public he insisted on holding me close so people would know that the beautifull bald girl wa his. that is love. dont worry you are still in high school and when the right girl comes along, you will know. it will just happen and she will having a caring soul with the warmth of the sun you will always long to be close to. so for now worry about school and a good job so that you will be able to create a life for you and the perfect girl.
2007-03-14 14:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by Wiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it girls like bad boys all you need to do is show her that he is cheating on her. or you can a romantic friend what mean when i that is maybe get her a flower everyday and say I care.
2007-03-14 14:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a great guy....If she wasn't there for u when u was sick n didn't come over n visit you at home then u don't really need to be with her!!Then when u got better she had a another man.....There goes to show u how much u meant to her!! Obviously she loves to get hurt!!!
2007-03-14 14:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Raquel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go back.Im sure ther are plenty of girls at school that like you.Im sure this guy will end up doing her the way she did you.What goes around comes around dont worrie.
2007-03-14 14:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit her down and talk and find out what happened and why she broke up with you. because if after you were getting better and she broke up with you hten it has to be something else, or wierd. but you really need to talk to her even if she does not want to talk.
hope it works out for you, and hope you feel better.
2007-03-14 14:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by william r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋