why is it so hard for me to ***?

Question

ok so i feel bad because it is freaking hard for girls to *** or have an orgasim and i feel bad b/c i feel like something is wrong w/ me when my boyfriend gets horny so easily.....what can i do or how do i not feel as bad?

Answer 1

If you can, tell him how you feel. Tell him what turns you on, what it takes to make you ***. Maybe you can make it fun, play a game where he tries to make you ***. Try different approaches, like an experiment.

There seem to be lots of good books about sex, physical relationships. You might try to find one of those and see what it says and see if it sounds right for you.

Good luck.

Answer 2

A lot of women find it difficult to climax. have you tried different rechniques while masturbating? have you tried different things with your boyfriend? does he attempt to please you before going off himself?
Have him try manually and orally stimulating you. try different positions. Lubricant is always a plus, since it increases friction. try working yourself up or having him work you up before you get to the genital contact: kissing, rubbing, playing with different parts of your body. experiment with what feels good, and evetually, you'll get worked up.
Men are built to go quickly. it comes from the primordial makeup when males would sneak into the alpha's "harem" and impregnate one of his "wives" without the Alpha finding out. Men also have different muscle structures that enable the ejaculate to squirt, like an injection. this is also why men can hold urine better than women.