I have a boyfriend and my best friend is a guy. My best friend has a girlfriend. He is in love with me and in love with his girlfriend. I love my boyfriend but I think I am really really in love with my best friend. My best friend says things to me that are just so sweet, it makes me want to cry. He told me today that he gets carried away by the light in my eyes and that he loves being around me. He knows I love him, but I don't think he knows how much I really do. I don't know what to do because i think I'm suposed to keep going out with my boyfriend, I mean what would be the point? I love my boyfriend and my best friend has a girlfriend. What should I do? Our one month is in two days and I barely hang out with my boyfriend, I hang out with my best friend way more then I hang out with my boyfriend and I have more then just superficial conversations with my best friend.
2007-03-14 13:52:19 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both you and the best friend need to figure out what you want. If you both love eachother and want to be together then do the right thing and break it off with your significant others. If he is unsure what he wants to do then tell him to get his act together and figure it out, he shouldn't string you along. Keep in mind that this situation isn't really fair to the other people involved, being that you two already have established that you love eachother and there is a connection.
2007-03-14 13:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U cant truly love two ppl at once so u have to decide and maybe if u break up with ur bf, it will show ur best friend how much u really love him (just a suggestion) and I dont know how much ur best friend loves his girlfriend and everything but he does seem soo sweet (ur lucky) and plz dont keep leading ur bf to believe that u like him if u really love ur best friend it isnt fair to ur bf (let him move on with his life and have a chance to fall in love)
Good Luck sorting it all out!!
2007-03-14 20:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend & both tel each other verbally how you both feel, if you want to be together tell your partners if not then discontinue the friendship
remember that the grass isnt always greener & if you & your friend dont want to be together dont just settle for your partners
2007-03-14 21:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by sweety-pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to re-think your views on what love really is. Think about it for a while and tell me (well email me) what you come up with and i'll help you more.
2007-03-14 20:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by eat_sleep_breath_livevolleball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋