We've been going out for two years and things have been rocky between us latly, i wont lie.
im still in love with him but hes unsure if he loves me.
He said either way he wants to work on it, but doesnt know if hes staying just to make me happy...
I dont know how to handel any of it, or if theres anything i can do to persuade him... help? :-/
2007-03-14 13:52:16 · 9 answers · asked by Katy 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Credit
Let him know you care about him, but DO NOT sit around waiting for him to decide if he wants to be with you. There is nothing more unattractive to a guy than a girl who is hanging around and desperate. Stay busy, TRY to have fun, let him see you as the person you truly are and not as a wounded shadow of the person you used to be. Lighten things up a bit. Be goofy instead of always discussing the relationship and it's problems. Laughter is healing.
2007-03-14 14:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourselves a little
'breathing room"Some times a break up makes the other person realize just how much they have "given up". Most young couples have their moments. I know from experience I did !! Like I said above Give ea. other a little time to think things out and one way or the other you'''ll know.Just remember 1 thing, If it was meant to be so it shall !!
2007-03-14 21:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by AZRAEL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry i went through the same thing except i only knew him for a year and were still going out. u just got to hang in there and hope for the best just tell him how u feel and ask him think really hard i know its hard for guys to think but anyways think hard baby when ur around me are u happy. when i leave do u miss me. do i make u laugh or ask do u think about me out of nowhere . if he says yes to most of these answer than let him make his decision it may be hard. but i belive if u guys were really meant to be you will go back out again. just keep in touch w/him if he does decide to make tat decsion it may be hard i had to deal w/it. but me and my b/f broke up 2 times this is are 3rd time going out and we still love each more than anything now
2007-03-14 21:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first put a lock on your credit report so no new accounts can be opened and put limits on all your credit cards.
with that done DUMP him on the street. Get on with your life don't be a sucker.
if he ain't sure send him away till he is.
should he come back allow him the privilege of earning your respect and love all over again.
girl there are more men out there then you got time for, don't waste you life on the EX. dump him
2007-03-14 21:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to persuade someone who is unsure of his love for you to stay with you? Aren't you worth more than that? break ups are always hard but you have to be realistic here, is time not better spent on someone out there who would absolutely adore you?? Girl, you can do better than someone who is playing you up!!!! Honestly! Tell him to go, and you go and get yourself a blind date! And besides, why does he get to call all the shots? He needs a major reality check and you need to get out while the going is good!
2007-03-14 20:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by secret p 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if your boyfriend isn't sure, let him go. It will hurt at first, but it will be better for you both in the long run.
2007-03-14 21:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tigger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go
2007-03-14 21:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking this in the credit section??
2007-03-14 22:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by sem3578 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him before he dumps you . it will make you feel good
2007-03-14 21:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Maka 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋