My boyfriend and I love each other but he is not attracted to me and we don't have sex. But when he look at other female he is thinking he will like to be with her and have sex. What can we do? And what can he do to avoid it.
2007-03-14 13:39:23 · 17 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate to be the one to tell you this but if you love someone with all your heart, physical attraction is there too. A long time relationship will not be complete if he is attracted to everybody else but you. You will end up resenting him. You can't avoid being attracted to other people. Even people in a commited relationship and having sex still find other people attractive. The difference is they can use that attraction with each other. To me if he doesnt' find you attractive there is no way yu will be together in the long run
2007-03-14 13:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!!! nicely in case your boyfriend no longer involved in you, then why having him as a boyfriend??? forget approximately approximately having intercourse or no longer!!! that's no longer the subject. the subject right it is that there is not any factor, on being someones lady's buddy, if that person isn't involved in her!!! it is not sexual subject as to be in a loving courting, one unavoidably does not might desire to be sexually lively!!! yet a relation like this demands, a minimum of a large point of appeal, from one yet another. with the intention to allow you to already know the reality, the two he's confuse of the thoughts he have for you or, there is a few thing else, extra complicated than what you only expressed!!! If I have been you, i might go away him, using fact while you're searching for for a whole, extra intimate courting, this one desires a psychiatrist, at first!!! GOD BLESS YOU & chuffed existence A.Z.
2016-10-18 09:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I would say you shouldn't be having sex anyway. Next I would say that just doesn't sound like LOVE to me. Love/Sex they go together . Why isn't he attracted to you. Notice what type girls he is checking out? maybe this will help. Maybe you could add more detail to your question. That might get you some better answers, Good luck.
2007-03-14 13:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you together as boyfriend and girlfriend if he is not sexually attracted to you? Feeling attraction towards someone depends on the chemistry that you have towards a person. It can't be faked, and it can't be stopped (though we can choose not to act upon it). Your boyfriend will not stop fancying other women and I don't see how you can get him to fancy you if he doesn't even like you enough to want to have sex with you. Sorry. Find someone who will appreciate you and get out of there!
2007-03-14 13:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something wrong there with your relationship. Maybe its more of a brotherly love than a love love. How can he love you and not be attracted ok maybe not like damn you hot attractive but i love you so much I want to make love to you attracted. I dont know man. Thats all I can think of saying. I've never had that before.
2007-03-14 13:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to be having sex and neither does he.You cannot make him be sexually attracted to you and you alone.Sorry thats just human nature for men to look, it takes learning self control not to do that.He is young.If you like the relationship, sounds like this is how it will be for life.
2007-03-14 13:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WE do????? HE HAS SERIOUS issues in the entire area of relationships and women. YOU have serious self-image issues because you put up with being his "sorta" girlfriend until he finds someone better. THIS between you is NOT boyfriend/girlfriend stuff - he can avoid looking at girls with lust by NOT DOING IT!!!!
2007-03-14 13:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up.
Meanwhile you might consider finding a boyfriend who appreciates you, AND is attracted to you as well.
2007-03-14 13:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys love each other alot - but just as friends. You guys are too good of friends to be romantic and just isn't there.
2007-03-14 13:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of a relationship is attraction & sex
if neither of you want sex then thats up to you but he obviously dosent want you, sorry to be blunt
2007-03-14 13:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by sweety-pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋