2007-03-14 13:38:08 · 12 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loved you, he WOULD find you attractive. There's no ifs ands or buts to that.
Dump him if he doesn't find you attractive. That's not love OR lust. That's an illusion of love that you don't deserve. You deserve MUCH better.
2007-03-14 13:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!!
Well if your boyfriend NOT attracted to you, then why having him as a boyfriend???
Forget about having sex or not!!! That is NOT the issue. The issue here is that there is no point, on being someones girl's friend, if that person is NOT attracted to her!!!
This is NOT sexual issue as to be in a loving relationship, one necessarily doesn't have to be sexually active!!! But a relation like this requires, at least a great level of attraction, from each other.
So to tell you the truth, either he is confuse of the feelings he have for you or, there is something else, more complicated than what you just expressed!!!
If I were you, I would leave him, because if you are looking for a complete, more intimate relationship, this one needs a psychiatrist, to start with!!!
GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-03-14 13:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you meant to say that You are in love with him...you need to evaluated your relationship and see wants the problem. Try sitting him down and asking him "what's the problem" A man likes a woman that keeps herself up....not saying that you don't but this could be the problem. Or he is just trying to break it off.....When a man or woman is not taking interest in you.... then nine times out ten he is seeing someone else. And maybe he is just with you for a particular reason. So you need to find out what's going on and try to save your relationship. And don't jump to conclusions...he might be going through somethings. It's something that can be fixed if he want it to be fixed. Now if he is watching porn and looking at other girls and getting turned on...then you need to move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-14 13:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mocca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys treat love differently than girls... girls give sex to get love and guys give love to get sex... what I know, some guy love girls not because of the sex.. but wanting to be with her maybe can have a lot of things to talk about , being comfortable to be with... but when come to sex.. he might want those wild sex, or something different like SM... but that is that... he won;t love those slut he just want to fxxk those girls ... it depends to that guy
2007-03-14 13:45:10 · answer #4 · answered by fooleong_chong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it is possible that he likes you as a great friend but is attracted to men...
2007-03-14 13:41:16 · answer #5 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait he loves you but he's not attracted to you, and what happened to rest of your question
2007-03-14 13:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not going to work out. why would u want to be in a relationship like that? move on...
2007-03-14 13:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't get attracted to you and don't get his eyes off other girls. LEAVE him. your too good for him anyways.
2007-03-14 13:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by breezy_boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...looks like you forgot to ask a question!
2007-03-14 13:41:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that even possible and u didnt finish your question
2007-03-14 13:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋