Do girls like this?

Question

When guys give them attention? How can I give this girl attention. I think she likes it when I ask her things, but should I sit by her tommorow when we're in the computer lab? Any tips on what I should do when I sit next to her? Does attention fullfill some sort of emotional need?

Answer 1

hmmm the RIGHT kind of attention is always good...it is attention that makes a girl feel special not the perverted type of attention..and yes if u want u should sit by her in computer lab but only if u r comfortable with it cuz if u r uncomfortable, then she will know and then it will be akward

Good Luck!! U go!!!

Answer 2

Yes and no. Girls love attention from guys who are in power and in charge (rich guys, guys that look like brad pit, and guys who have a super-attractive personality, etc.). But if you're none of those then giving too much attention could work against you, and since you can't really change your looks or your wealth, the only thing you can do is develop a "super-attractive personality". I can't exactly tell you what to do to get this in such a short answer, but I'll try to tell you some basic stuff that any guy can work on:
1- Don't give her too much of anything. Don't give her your full attention, and don't give her your complete co-operation.
2- If you can get her to laugh, and keep laughing, then it doesn't matter what you do. (this doesn't mean telling a funny joke. In fact it might not even have anything to do with a joke, it may just be something humorous that you have caused[the key being that you are the cause of her laughter and not someone else])
3- Flirt. This is obvious to most guys, but there's always someone who doesn't understand it correctly, or doesn't even know how. Flirting is any form of resistance that gets the two participants connected to one another. It could be foreplay (touching...tickling, poking, squeezing, pulling their chair out from under them, etc) it could be laughing at them, and it could even be doing the exact opposite of what they tell you to do. Remember that it's a form of -resistance- that makes the two of you connect. [be careful not to go so far as to making you angry at one another, and be careful of not resisting enough but being compliant.]
4. Don't put too much pressure on anything happening at first. Don't worry if what you're doing doesn't work, and don't stress anything too much. Take it how it is and move on.

5- Just have fun.

If that doesn't work and you still don't know how to act around this girl, just treat her as though she's your little sister. ;-) if that makes sense.

Answer 3

everybody, not just women, like attention. IT makes us feel special, wanted, and attractive. My advice would be sit next to her and strike up a conversation. Really listen to her answers and that should lead into more to talk about. If you don't know what to say right off the bat, ask her about what you are doing on the computer. Its a start

Answer 4

Everyone likes attention. Even you. Girls also like to communicate back and forth. With intelligence. :) Yeah sit by her and talk to her. About just regular stuff. Ask her what if any music she likes or whatever. Share a little about yourself too. Give and take in the conversation. Good Luck!

Answer 5

In general, people like sincerity. However, you don't want to rush things. You both need to be on the same page.

Just talk about little things, sit next her sometimes, but not always, and then work your way up. However, don't go the friend route -- you want her to think of you romantically. Pay attention to what she's saying. Does she like movies? What kinds? ...Maybe she'd be interested in going with you to that one that just came out!

Answer 6

Yes sit beside her - ask her questions - are you interested in her? Everyone like good attention - it fills the need to be accepted, liked, loved, increases a persons self-confidence and make a girl feel desirable and wanted and pretty and special.

Answer 7

It's simple, be interested in her. What do you know about her? What kind of movies does she like? Do a quick check of what's out & ask her if she's seen previews for it & what she thinks (Wild Hogs comes to mind, should be funny...). Ask her if she's been to the local club yet & what she thinks. If she's not into clubs, ask her if she ever saw Nickelback in concert (go with popular). When you ask questions, you make the girl feel important. Don't be too obnoxious though, wait for her response & see where the conversation goes.

Answer 8

I suppose the opposite of wanting some attention is to be left alone and not bothered. That works unless you like someone. It doesn't have much to do with emotions.

Answer 9

well ya girls like to get attention. And u definitly should sit by her. Talk about watever u want to but keepit realistic. dont say anything wierd that would make you uncomfortable. if u really like her ask her to hang out sometime. Whats the worst that can happen

Answer 10

Dude, girls like it when they get attention. But dont be like the rest of them giving her attention. What I do in this situation is ignore her. Then she'll notice u because ur the only one not paying her no mind. I mean say hello to her but keep it short and simple. But for the most part, dont be like the rest of the scrubs trying to give her attention. Trust me, it'll work for u. =)