I am 13. I am tired of laying in bed crying at night. I don't even have that great of a reason. I am a perfectionist, and I get torn to peices over anything that goes wrong. The other day I was crying, because my friend said, "Did you study for the quiz in science today?" I hadn't studied enough. In my mind I knew the test was the next day, but I was still freaking out. I am pathetic. I stress myself out sooooooo.... much with my busy schedule. Sometimes I wish I could just die. I am involved too much with tennis, and I care about my grades WAY too much.
HELP ME!!!
My friend's dad knows I am depressed and has been asking me if I am okay. I afraid he will call my dad.
I can't tell my parents. They are on planet parent, and they won't understand me. Nobody ever understands me.
Yes, I am O.C.D. if you are wondering.
2007-03-14 13:36:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
hey, I'm just like you....I started cutting not too long ago and just want to tell you NOT to cut...
email me anytime
beth.sara@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 15:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sara B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a few years time you'll look back at this and think what a twit you were. In the meantime, if you're depressed do see a doctor for advice. Maybe a female one if you can. Don't underestimate the concern of your parents, although it's not unusual for teenagers to think their parents just aren't on the same wavelength. Talk to someone about how you feel. People care and will want to help. Chin up.
2007-03-14 13:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Divine ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think your parents weren't teenagers? Come on. We all went through depression as teens. ALL Teens think their parents don't understand. You'll be a parent one day. Wouldn't you feel terrible if your teens didn't come to you and said you'd never understand them--considering the way you feel right now? So stop feeling sorry for yourself.
You are trying WAY too hard to be perfect. Stop it. You think if you were only perfect, then people would love you. Well...get this----they love you already! You won't ever be perfect. No one is. And that's ok. Give your parents a break.
2007-03-14 13:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 22:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL your parents. they are not as stupid as you think. they must have friends with depression.(there's lots of us) they have been around it before. as well, the best help for depression is love and support from loved ones. don't you think your parents qualify?
and you said "nobody understands me". i tell you what. THIS cyberperson understands. hope this helps. you're not alone.
2007-03-14 13:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by jeffrey m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Grey's Anatomy, it does the trick for me.
2007-03-14 17:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go see someone like a psychologist.
2007-03-14 13:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mark H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please go see a phsyciatrist or therapist they help so much. and yes, they may want to give you medicine, but don't worry it's okay because this medicin just makes you relax.
2007-03-14 14:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go see your doc right now
2007-03-14 13:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.cchr.org/index.cfm/8771
http://antipsychiatry.org
http://sntp.net
2007-03-14 13:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋