do u think i should do this?

Question

well i like this guy and well we dated and then he broke up with me b/c i thought he cheated on me with his bff that's a girl but idk he didn't and now im sooo sad b/c i super liked him so do u think i should say that i was being a ***** by saying that all that and all the drama and saying also he flited with all these girls and stuff idk do u think i should tell him y i do those things the only reason is b/c i got hurt by some i super liked before and it was b/c of cheating

Answer 1

You wanna trim the drama? Realize there is no such thing as cheating when you are bf/gf. Talking to other girls is not cheating. Kissing other girls is not cheating. Writing passionate love letters to other girls is not cheating. Making out, dancing, bedding, or even falling in love with someone else is not cheating.

You can only cheat wen you promise to follow rules...and there are no rules of exclusivity when dating unless you express that promise to one another. What this implies is directness in communicating. That's what you skipped. Next time be direct.

Answer 2

Sure, an apology and explanation certainly can't hurt. Even if he doesn't care to return at this time that doesn't mean he won't think about you in the future. And with an explanation those thoughts could be better thoughts. If he does go back with you just make certain you don't accuse him of anything without knowing for a fact. Being accused can get old fast. Good luck!

Answer 3

slow down, dont consider it cheating. im sorry to say this but males need more then one candy. your a chocolate and he wants gum, then he gets gum. you have to move on. more fish in the sea then you know it.

Answer 4

if he flirts hes not wirth it