But he gives me mixed signals, I fairly certain he likes me too but for some reason is reluctant to pursue me. He has told me in the past that he doesn't want to date a coworker, but their has been good chemistry between us. The problem is we work different shifts now and a only see him maybe 2 hours a week at work and when I do he is very cold towards me. This only makes me want him more. What do I have to do to get with him. I know he is attracted to me and single. Please help.
2007-03-14 13:33:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him a quick note via office inter-net but be careful how you word it because you don't know who also could be reading it, label it like: meeting at and the time and have him send you his number to confirm
Because of many office rules about dating co-workers and the fact that he maybe shy is why he is sending you mixed messages, he doesn't want to cause trouble and maybe he has had inter-office relations before that have ended badly
proceed with caution,provided its meant to be it will happen but definitely take the relationship away from the work site
2007-03-14 16:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically romance in the workplace is usually frowned upon because it is a professional environment. The only way you can possibly start a relationship with your coworker is to take it outside the workplace. You've got to meet him somewhere away from work. Get his phone number and suggest a place and time to meet.
2007-03-14 13:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes you he wouldn't be so cold to you when he saw u... I like my female colleagues but not to extend to being boyfriend or girlfriend... sometimes it just extend to being friends only..
2007-03-14 13:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by fooleong_chong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help? help with what? if he wanted to be with you; he would have found a way...
2007-03-14 13:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋