Does it matter how many boyfriends you had in the past to determine if you are going to get married or not. Because my sister is 20 and she has never had a boyfriend before but she does want to get married. Do any of you out there know any late bloomers out there when it comes to getting their first kiss and first bf/gf.
2007-03-14 13:24:17 · 16 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are people that just dont date in high school or college. Maybe they're insecure, maybe they dont know how to relate to the opposite sex, maybe they're just too picky. (I know this one girl, who's turning 20 in April, that has never had a boyfriend or a kiss because no one is "good enough", there's always some flaw) She might get married, she might not. People who have had 100 relationships might get married, or not. It just depends if the right person comes along.
But love isnt like the pizza delivery man, it wont come looking for you. As long as she's social and in social situations where she can meet people, she can meet her perfect match and get married. If she stays in all the time and reads and has no social life, she probably wont meet anyone.
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2007-03-14 13:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by PR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how many bfs you have to determine if you'll get married. There are such things as late bloomers when it comes to realstionahips. I've only been in two real relationships and i'm 17. Dont worry about your sister, she'll find someone.
2007-03-14 20:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH ha yeah. Hi.. me! I'm 18 & have yet to have a boyfriend or my first kiss.. I lie to people about it all the time, but I figured I should be honest with you about this since you asking this question that pretty much relates to my life :) Ah okay, so I've had this discussion with my mum & all my best friend & my parents think I've had boyfriends(3) & at least my first kiss, but I havnt.. Its personal to me & I never wanted to kiss some random nothing guy. I wanted it to be right & real, & I will wait till it comes around. I want to get married & have kids one day, I for sure know that. But if I never meet the right man, I'm okay with that. I can adopt kids, I've always wanted to do that anyways.. I just want to at least like the guy more than a friend or just a little to kiss them. I'm picky & choice & I think I deserve the right to be. I know what I want & will wait till I find it. I have high morals set for myself & wont downgrade just for a silly meaningless kiss. I am a pretty girl, it might sound rude to say, but I know I am. I am intimidating to guys all the time. I have a bigger chest(large C small D) & pretty eyes & hair & skin. Basically I know I'm a good looking girl, & the gusy I like are scared to talk to me. It sucks, but if they cant grow up to talk to me or ask me out then theyre not right for me. Simples as that.. life is tough hun, & you have to roll with the punches.. & even the punches that never come your way lol. This is a personal confession I have never freely made to anyone at all, so consider yourself very privledged my friend. I hope that I have helped you out a little bit with the answer you seek. Best of luck to your sister & you too <3
2007-03-14 20:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Lor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend didnt get her first kiss until she was 18 and the guy she is with already stayed with her for 2 years;
i guess thats sorta late but she doing pretty good;
the duration of an relatinship only counts how commiteded the people that are in it are.
2007-03-14 20:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by tofueli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine knows a girl whos in her late twenties and wants to get married some day. and she is a virgin living with mom and dad. so there is still hope for ur sister but i dont think much left for her.
2007-03-14 20:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it doesn't matter that much. Just hope she doesn't jump right in with the first guy she dates and ends up making a mistake.
2007-03-14 20:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jbr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't kiss anyone till I was fourteen, and felt like a late bloomer
Now I'm 16 and in a long-term relationship
2007-03-14 20:28:16 · answer #7 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people are just really picky. there is nothing wrong with your sister she might just have high standards and doesn't want to settle for anything less than special. I know many people who wish they would have been that way in their younger days...me included
2007-03-14 20:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got my first boyfriend at nineteen. He was my first boyfriend, date, and kiss. We've been married nine years! Good luck to your sis!
2007-03-14 20:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it does not matter how many boyfriends/girlfriends you have had at some point you will meet someone and they will become the most important person in your life
2007-03-14 20:28:22 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋