we're both in 8th grade now.i went out with this guy when we were both in 5th grade(his parents didn't like me and my parents didn't like him)and i broke up with him. we didn't go to the same middle school, so we didn't see each other for like 3years.now i see him everyday cuz we play sports at the same school.he called my dad and got my cell phone number.he called me and we talked for like an hour.he told me he never got over me from 5th grade.well at the time i had a boyfriend and now i don't.i think i like him and his parents just took his phone away do i can't tell him or talk to him.so the big question is, should i go back out w/him???and if not, what should i do???thx for the help
2007-03-14 13:22:38 · 17 answers · asked by rock chic3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first time you asked this, you chose this - 'ask yrself if he is right 4 u. since you guys are comfortable talking that's great!!!'
as the best answer. That was two days ago, and you've asked it twice since then. Whats the point of picking a best answer if you are only going to ask the question again? and again? Remember a few months ago when you where asking the same question many times in the same day, for days? You don't need other peoples advice. You know what you want to do. Just do it.
Stop obsessing over all the little details, and just enjoy life.
Long Live Jambi
2007-03-15 01:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go forwards not backwards, thats not to say one day you´ll end up with him, however, trouble breeds trouble, whatever you do think about everyone who´s invlolved, that´ll be dificult for someone of your age!
and now for old peron talking to a young person, looking back at all the life experience I´ve had and knowing what I know now about people, keep his parents happy and stay away, they sound like trouble but if you HAVE to talk to him, perhaps tell your parents to call his parents, and telling them how you and they feel about a "boyfriend girlfriend" or even a "friend friend" relationship you´ll get better results than if you go behind his and your parents´ backs. your mum or dad might be able to make the boys parents feel more comfortable, by knowing the girlfriend, to be sensible, and when and where you would "see" Thier son. if it doesn´t work, leave it and see what happens.
take it easy and good huntin´
2007-03-14 20:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by hardcore_pawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I think it depends on a few things
First of all if you like him go for it, but keep in mind that if there is still conflict with the parents do you really want to put up with the controversy? If you can find solutions to work around that than great, if that doesnt work you need to ask yourself is it really worth it.
Most importantly just remember that your young and there is plenty of other options and time.
2007-03-14 20:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by jana m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, think about why you dumped him in the first place. Was it a good reason?
IMPORTANT!! People get confused about liking someone, its harder when they know the person likes them, which drives a person to think they like them too but really dont, its confusing!!
Try to get together with him, and maybe some friends, and see if he's still the guy you liked from 5th grade. With more people there wont be any awkward moments etc.
But ALSO!!! Why did your parents hate him??? Think about that!!! Believe me my friend was going out with this guy, but he was like, doing some bad stuff, and they wouldnt allow her to go out with him even tho she did.
Your parents may no more stuff then you do.
2007-03-14 20:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. I went out with a guy and my parents didn't like him and his parents hated me. We tried to make it work 6 times and in the end I just ended up in the same heart-break situation. I am sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear but, it's what's best.
Sorry!
_bEtHaNy #33
2007-03-14 20:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by smilez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even thought none of us want to hear it our parents usually are right about people. And they have our best interest at heart. So my opinion is to take things slow, hang out with him as a friend, and see how things go. You are young, you dont need to rush in to anything. And think about what it is that you want from a boyfriend, what qualities you want them to have, and see which guy has them.
2007-03-14 20:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the 8th grade too.. if you can see why your parents havea prob with him.. dont go out iwth him.. if not.. talk to him and tell him you like him..
also tell him that you arent sure.. that your parents dont like him.. maybe he'll try to make it up to your parents..
email me miss_jessica_leigh@yahoo.com
i have guyt trouble.. maybe we can help each other lol
2007-03-14 20:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by ♥jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... 5th grade? You "went out"? what was that, like, smiling at eachother every now and then? Lol, you kids... I swear.
2007-03-14 20:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sigh, parents have it their way all the time. its your choice. sure, your parents know stuff. is the boy a flunker? bad boy? in any case, if your parents hate him, there is a chance you might do the same. if he is nice smart ect, go for it.
2007-03-14 20:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by Mountain Dew? Sundew! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
go out with him
in less you wanna hurt him again!
you know some boys can obsess over girls like ALLOT!
and he could be one of them!
2007-03-14 20:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by i tell it how it is! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋