me, my boyfriend and my guyfriend all go to the same church so my boyfriend and my guy friend know each other and at school my boyfriend wanted to know if me and my guy friend were going out at one time (before i had my boyfriend) and i said no why he told me that my guy friend always was talking about me and stuff. so he knows that my guyfriend likes me and im not to sure if he would like the fact that me and my guy friend went to the movies exspecialy instead of inviteing him but that part wasnt my fault it was my moms.
should i tell him or keep it a secret?
wat should i do ?
2007-03-14 13:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by elaina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going to the movies with one of your guy friends isint a crime .. the only crime would be if u cheated on your boyfriend ? if not then its good for your boyfriend to knwo that you go out with some of your guy friends now and then to hang out.. if your boyfriend seems to think thats a probleme then i dont think he puts enough trust in you.. a relationship is nothen without trust ..when my boyfriend goes out with another girl for fun yeah i get jealous and think " oh whut if he likes her ? " but i have enough trust in him to know that if hes goen out with me its because he likes me and not her.. soo maybe if you guys have a good enough relationship it wont be a problem and it doesnt always hafta just be you and your guy friends you can always bring your boyfriend to tag along sometimes =)
2007-03-14 13:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely tell him. If you keep it a secret, and he finds out, then he will think something is going on. As for your friend, tell him to stop talking about you to your boyfriend. Make sure he knows that he has no chance and that you're just friends. If he continues to talk about you in the wrong way to your boyfriend, then he's not respecting your relationship, and you may need to think over that friendship.
2007-03-14 13:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be open and honest with your boyfriend. What do you have to hide, you could have told him about it because it makes you look like your hiding smething. You should tell him, because if its nothing more than a "guyfriend" theyre shoulldnt be aproblem. But, why couldnt your boyfriend had of gone too?
2007-03-14 13:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by alonnac20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you are obviously in school, so I would not sweat it. There are tons of guys out there and chances are neither one of these guys will even be in your immediate future once you are done with the grade you are in, and more than likely will not be after high school. Enjoy life and don't worry about things like this.
2007-03-14 13:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by AnswerGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honesty is key in relationships. you should tell him. tell him the truth: nothing happened, you only see that guy as a friend, and you're sorry and wont do it again.
for future reference, never go out one on one with another guy without your boyfriend knowing. most guys will not be ok with it, and you can cause unnecessary problems in the relationship
2007-03-14 13:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by PR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't volunteer anything. Will your friend tell your b/f? If so, then you may have to, but don't blame Mom, you were the one to go.
2007-03-14 13:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what your heart sais
2007-03-14 13:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋