Ok... So there is this one kid, Nick, and he is really mean to just about everyone, even girls; he throws stuff at them, steals their things, cheats off of their work and hits them if they don't do what he wants. I had a girlfriend, Chelsea, and he was hitting on her; after awhile, she broke up with me to go out with him. A month or so later, he dumped her to go out with another girl. Now, this other girl I liked told me she liked me, and I told her I did too. About a week later, she is now saying sorry to me, and is now going out with him? I really don't get why all the girls like him, he is mean, gets all D's or F's, and whines about everything. Why do girls still go out with him?
2007-03-14 13:20:57 · 18 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a romantic notion that there's a prince inside that frog.
They think that if they kiss him, he'll turn into something better--maybe even better than you!
But these are silly girls. Look around, and you will find young women with better sense. Those are the people you should spend your time asking out.
2007-03-14 13:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, this is known as AMoG (Alpha Male of the Group) theory. Relate this back to animals, and you will see that he basically acts like a leader of the pack. Obviously not through example, but in terms of aggressiveness. By basically becoming the center of attention, he manages to cause girls to think about him at an almost ridiculous amount.
My recommendation to you then is not to follow his example. Play smarter not harder in a sense. Try to see what exactly he does and model what seems to catch attention while at the same time avoiding his negatives. Just as well, have greater interaction with the ladies but do not let them think of you as a friend, unless thats what you want. Pick up ways to catch the girls interest (ie. better clothing, change in hairstyle, jewelry, attitude). Pick up talking points (ie. a hobby, goofy stories, random tests).
I suggest doing your reading. There's a great book called The Game by Neil Strauss, start there and with a little more work you'll expose yourself to a more intelligence on how to go about your wishes.
2007-03-14 20:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by umasut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to tell the truth most girls will go out w/ a guy for there looks not there personalty and some girls like bad boys but all i know is if ur still his friend u shouldnt be he shouldnt of stole ur girlfriend like that . that isnt being a very good friend. he seems like a pretty big jerk to me.
well i hope i helped.
2007-03-14 20:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're shallow and desperate. I'm not saying that to be mean, it's just true. And a lot of girls are attracted to bad boys.
But not all girls are like that. I for one cannot stand a guy like the one you're describing.
2007-03-14 20:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Directed to Convict...If your not going to be nice about this guys feelings then don't say anything!!! >:( And Zach, you said that he hits girls if they don't do what he wants. Maybe he's physically MAKING them go out with him. I wouldn't worry about it though, if they do leave you for him, they weren't good enough for you anyway. Find some girl who won't stand for being pushed around like that. Then you'll have nothing to worry about. Need to talk? cheer_volleyball_rox@yahoo.com
2007-03-14 20:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by cheer_volleyball_rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls dig bad boys. Same old story. We swoon over the a$$holes and losers, because in most cases they're the most attractive.
Move on. You'll meet a new girl soon.
2007-03-14 20:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that mostly= you are confused between a guy "flirting" and being mean. He seems like a flirter who knows how to get a girls attention. By teasing, lots of eye contact, and joking around, but u know after awhile, girls love a guy so much if he just says they love them.
I personally get annoyed when guys act mean like that, but some girls i know like it. DONT WORRY THO, not all girls like guys like that. email me if your still confused k? :)
2007-03-14 20:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kaliana A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that myself because i'm a girl and i would never go out with a guy like that, maybe those girls like him bcuz they dig rough guys, who knows? i have no clue why some girls allow themselves to be mistreated, but honey its not ur fault that they left, they were probably too blind 2 c how great a guy u were 2 them. i'm sure that wen he breaks her heart she'll b crawling back 2 u!
2007-03-14 20:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you're just falling for the wrong kind of girls.
Ask yourself, do you have similar interests? If it weren't for the attraction, would you hang out together?
If the answers are no, look for a girl at the places you hang out or have fun.
-Camille
2007-03-14 20:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by Camille B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It Bad Boy syndrome. Girls love a Bad Boy but when they get treated like #&@% they run back to the guy that treated them good.
2007-03-14 20:25:53 · answer #10 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋