Hey....I'm 17, and I'm dating a girl long distance for now......the plan is to meet in 3 months. We have been dating long distance for close to 10 months now and she used to call me a lot more before and text with me.....now it seems as if that has come to a halt or close to one....how can I tell if she loves me?? Thanks!
2007-03-14 13:01:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your gf texts and calls you a lot more from the beginning because the best part of relationships are always the beginning. Both of you guys were dying to know about each other and learning from each other. She was excited to call you everytime and would make the effort to call you. Both of you guys probably think that you guys would last very long, which you guys did. As time goes by, her interest in you fades away, or either she has been busy and makes less effort to talk to you. If she has been calling a lot more than you called her, you should start calling her...
Well, to figure out if she loves you or not, its hard to tell. You never know whats she doing or thinking. So, you need to talk to her about this and see what's going on.
Im in the exactly same situation! My bf has been very sweet and loving from the beginning of the relationship, but eventually things have been going downhill after 3 months... We are still together, but he doesnt talk to me anymore like he used to. I call him from time to time to check up on him. But he doesnt call me when he has time. He calls me only when I call him, as doing back a favor. It makes me mad, but im trying to move on to stop thinking about him because im feeling like everything has changed... We havent officially broke up yet, but Im planning to talk this out first and then break up.
2007-03-14 13:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shell tell you
long distance relationships are hard & it takes a lot to make them work an important thing is not to get too engrosed in each other while letting the other know how you feel, remember communication is the key
2007-03-14 13:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweety-pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its over man move on long distance realationships never work.....maybe later on you two can hook back up but for now i would find someone else
2007-03-14 13:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize there are actually REAL women out there in the real world? There might actually be a girl that would be interested in you if you go out there and try!
2007-03-14 13:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just sad - get a real girls friend, you can't be a fat little internet geek all your life
2007-03-14 13:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋