Does any-one know what to do if your boyfriend is about to break up with you?

Question

He doesn't really like talking to me and we haven't held hands or even hugged. I haven't done anything bad to him! I just need advice from older peeps. I'm really young ,in love & And i'm losing intrest! But I want to go to Homecoming with him for freashmen year,

Answer 1

Well, homecomming is a long time away. Maybe you will find a new someone to go to the homecoming dance. Don't stick around just for that reason a lone. Maybe you should break up first! Who knows, maybe you'll meet someone great over summer break to go to the dance with.

Answer 2

Babe, either break up with him first, or face it like a headstrong girl. Tell him you know what he wants to do and agree that it is for the best.

You really don't need a homecoming date. Freshman year sucks anyways and no love that young lasts.

Plus, why would you want to go to homecoming with a guy who doesn't even like you? That would RUIN your first homecoming. It could be fun. Go with a bunch of friends. High school will be a perfect opportunity to meet new guys. So don't even plan and worry that far ahead!

Answer 3

You're losing interest in him also. It's hard to change but there are so many guys out there and Homecoming is so far away. In a few months you may not want to go with him because you have met someone else.

Answer 4

Hopefully this answer will help you. If the boy is getting ready to break up with you then there's really nothing you can do but let him go. You can't make anyone love you. As far as homecoming find yourself another young boy if your boyfriend wants to act all stinky about it. "Plenty more fish in the sea" Or how I like to say it, "More than one leg in a whole chicken!" (You get my drift)

Answer 5

hun its in your face he is alienating his feelings to you.. loud and clear.. you dont need that if he gets to close and clams up all of a sudden perhaps he has issues he cant or wont get close or has done something wrong or is turnign his sexuality many reasons.. so give it up after you ask him I feel you are becoming distant have i done anything wrong or do you want to talk about where we are at this poiunt as i wanted to go to homecoming with you and i need answers lay that in his lap hear him out dotn interrupt as it will be hard for him to chat.. then listen well.. really listen to what he is saying .. he is dispondant no emotions no touch so um.. this is loud and clear signs ya have here..

Answer 6

i have that same prob but me nd my Bf have been going out 4 a year in the beggining it was great like holding hands and calling each other everyday.....but now its horrible we never talk nd im even thinking of breaking up with him i don't think u should do the same i think that u should talk to him nd get this off ur chest maybe he'll understand and start actually acting like a boyfriend or better yet maybe hes scared nd agrees with u, u'll never know!!=) good luckk

Answer 7

How can you be in love with the guy, when you haven't even held his hand yet? Don't worry about it. You're young, you have lots of time to discover true love with someone.

Answer 8

break-up with him first. he doesn't sound like a boyfriend if you haven't even held hands. what on earth are you doing with someone who doesn't even like talking to you? there's someone better you can go with to Homecoming, you've just got to find him :-)

Answer 9

first of all ur not in love u just think u are and second of all whats the point in going to homecoming with someone that doesnt like u??

Answer 10

It sounds like you just want a date for Homecoming.
Don't do it. You won't enjoy the date. Let him go and look for you next conquest!