I was hanging out with a guy friend the other day, and I thought we were just friends and then he kissed me...and I didn't stop him right away. I did after a minute, but I totally hurt my boyfriend and my entire school hates me...but I told him the truth right after it happened so he knew. Today I had to give him his space because I know he has to think...but as much as I don't deserve forgiveness or a second chance, I love him a lot and don't like the other guy and part of me wants to be forgiven so I can try until I die to be a better girlfriend and show him that I do love him. Sorry it was so long, but I seriously need help.
2007-03-14 12:54:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes if he is a good boyfriend then he will forgive you. If he doesn't then have the guy you kissed tell him too. But don't be surprised if he doesn't forgive you. Good luck and I hope he forgives you!
2007-03-14 12:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you stop him immediately? If after a second you realize and stopped then it didn't mean a thing. But if you had to think about it then obviously you are having mixed feelings. If he cares about you and you are trustworthy he will believe that it didn't mean anything and will forgive you. Set up better boundries between friends so this doesn't happen again and make sure you don't give mixed signals to your friends either.,
2007-03-14 19:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by N323 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly where you are coming from. give him some time and he should come around. I'm not saying that you guys will necessarily date again, but you guys might be able to talk things over. Just tell him that you know you made a mistake, a big one that you regret, and you can understand if he never wants to talk to you again, but you'd love to have the chance to prove to him how sorry you are.
2007-03-14 19:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by canadian_cowgurl04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him forgive you - all you can do is let him know how sorry you are and how much you regret what happened and that it won't happen again - the ball's in his court after that. Sorry - hope he does forgive you!!
2007-03-14 19:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your boyfriend know how you really feel... but you need to 1st be true to yourself and make sure that you aren't starting to develop feelings for this other guy... if you are positive that it's all about your boyfriend, let him know... it will take time for him to get over it.. but it is very possible...
2007-03-14 20:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by ***Girlie Girl*** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and space and if he loves you then he will forgive you. Be supportive and show your love, but don't be pushy. Good luck!
2007-03-14 19:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Kitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't worry..it's only puppy love..when u get of age u r going to have a lot of worries that will keep ur life full enough.with all kind of things that won't make sense to u...
2007-03-14 20:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell ur bf that then.
2007-03-14 19:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you were honest
2007-03-14 19:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋