Please don't tell me to try to talk to him. Everytime I speak one word, he stares around, and acts like he doesn't hear me at all.
2007-03-14 12:50:38 · 13 answers · asked by a_lot_smarter_now 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Preschool
You married an immature baby. The silent treatment is something toddlers do. When he decides to grow up it'll end. Tell him he's being a baby and acting like he didn't get his way and throwing a temper tantrum. Geez, I'm sorry hon! He needs to grow the hell up! Don't stoop to his level, whatever you do. If he's refusing to talk to you, then don't try anymore. He'll eventually stop acting like a two year old and talk to you like a mature adult.
2007-03-14 12:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I guess the first question would be why would you want to talk to someone who can't talk out his problems? Does this remind anyone of junior high?
Anyway, I start by leaving a note but not the entire note. Like write down that someone called him from his job and its very important that he . . .Then don't write another word. If he wants to find out more he will ask about it. Continue to do this until he get the message.
But in the end the decision is yours, but staying with someone who doesn't or won't talk to you. Good luck
2007-03-14 13:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by J C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Silence is golden and women have never learned to appreciate giving men the space and time to themselves. Why do women want to talk that much? Talking leaves no time for the brain to process intelligent matters.
2007-03-14 13:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you've apologies (if you needed to ) and tried everyhting else you ahd to...then you too get on siletn mode...go about doing your own work....get a life....go out for a couple of hours without informing him....
let him wonder what you're upto...you need to send a message out that you aint gonna take crap.
2007-03-14 18:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jennie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The silent treatment is the best treatment. I can go weeks on end if my husband makes me upset. No way to make him talk to you, you will have to wait it out.
2007-03-14 12:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by lalala 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Put some ear plugs in and act like you don't wont to listen to him . Every time he looks at you flash him. Get real sexy in front of him but don't let him touch you . Cook dinner butt naked . Hes going to have to speak sooner or later to see whats up
2007-03-14 13:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Hell...I get this all the time. ya mean this isn't normal? Hopefully he'll grow out of it some day....until then...you can hang around with us. :-)
2007-03-14 12:56:18 · answer #7 · answered by steve 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if you are sorry or want to reconcile, try to walk up behind him and put your arms around him.. or kiss him on the back of the neck if you get close enough.
That way he knows you aren't just going to open your mouth to argue or whatever.
2007-03-14 12:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
What did you do to make him so mad?Sounds like you need to apologize.Id hate to think you married a guy who is in the wrong or so easily offended and is going to make you out to be the bad guy.
2007-03-14 12:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
grrrrrrrr....can't help you, I wouldn't be with a man that was so immature to play that game.
2007-03-14 12:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋