First, I am a woman. Second, I don't understand why a woman would want to hide her pregnancy if she is married, already has a child, and a great career future ahead of herself. I told a cousin my sis was preggo and she got all angry. She already has a son and is married. I just don't get it. It's not like she going be able to hide the child for the rest of her life.........I did say I wasn't goin to tell anybody, but she should have known I was gonna tell my close cousin. And its not like my cousin would have told the "secret" to the world.
2007-03-14 12:30:01 · 11 answers · asked by lovelyleo 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Perhaps it's not so much that she's trying to hide it, but that she's trying to avoid having to tell too many people that she had a miscarriage...Many women feel a taboo about discussing it early in the pregnancy, because they don't want to have to deal with the whole planet knowing, if something were to go wrong (I'm knocking wood as I type). If she did end up miscarrying, the more people who knew about the pregnancy early, then the more people she would have to notify about the miscarriage.
Not to scold you, but it's not your place to be sharing your sister's good news. When she's ready for everyone to know, then she deserves the opportunity to spread the joy personally.
2007-03-14 12:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my cousin is like that too. The only reason why its because she is the most stuck up person ever. She has a lil girl as well as a good job and married. She always said she was not going to have any more babies. But look at her now. I don't think its bad, but she would always say my sister was dumb and make fun of her because she was going for her second pregnancy.
2007-03-14 12:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by star86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I additionally might choose to circulate tell the whole international that i'm pregnant. and that i additionally can not conceal being pregnant. i seem extensive for under being 22 weeks. and that i additionally appeared huge with my first newborn. yet some women persons do exactly no longer teach as early, some no longer even in any respect. My mom waited tables at the same time as she become pregnant with me till she become 8 a million/2 months. Then a month later she walked into the resturant with me to speak to the administrative approximately whilst she ought to start working returned and every person theory that she become retaining some elses infant using fact they could no longer have confidence that she become that pregnant. I additionally seen pictures of her at the same time as she become just about 9 months pregnant with me and you certainly could no longer tell. She mentioned that she purely gained 13 lbs with me and went just about 2 weeks previous due. and she or he become returned into her old denims purely a week after i become born. I additionally become no longer her first born. She already had my 2 brothers and lost a woman at 6 months pregnant in the past me. i'm satisfied I teach. i want the whole international to be attentive to that i'm waiting for.
2016-11-25 20:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was just not ready for others to know besides you. that does not mean she is hiding it. do you have children. i was like that with my third child. having a child is a big deal and maybe she needs time to digest the idea before others know. it does not matter that she is married with another child it is still a life altering event that some women prefer to not share at first.
2007-03-14 12:38:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of moms try to avoid spreading the news early in case of miscarriage. I know I felt that way. I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to end up in a miscarriage again. A lot of times also a woman would like to share the news themselves.
2007-03-14 12:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would make me mad too. In fact, I have a sister in law that did this to me for 2 of my pregnancies and she was specifically told not to tell anyone. This last time I refused to even speak to her for about 3 months. It is NOT your place to tell anyone. It is not yours to tell. Nevermind why she didn't want it told, why do you think you have the right to blab her secrets? Maybe they had something special planned to tell people, did you ever think of that?
2007-03-14 12:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by autumnofserenity@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's her pregnancy, not yours. What she's angry about is not that she was hiding, you said you wouldn't say anything to anyone. She wanted to let people know on her own.
It's always best to ask if it's okay to say something before you announce.
2007-03-14 12:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_cincin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mayb she's scared of what will happen.. mayb they are not finiacialy stable although it may seem so or mayb she jsu isnt ready for everyone to know .. mayb she wants 2 announce it @ a special time
2007-03-14 12:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may not be excited about the pregnancy yet. It's still new and scary to her.
2007-03-14 12:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by doubletree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she wanted to be the one to tell everyone she was pregnant instead of having her sister blab it all over.
2007-03-14 12:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋