im fat and ugly i dress like a boy but there is this really hot guy named nathan sharp please help i want us to go out but he doesnt want to i think cause the way i dress and im ugly but wen i go bak in school dressing like a girl they will make fun of me help ya and tips on nathan?
2007-03-14 12:28:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you just need a make over or something because you sound great and how you really care about what people think.
2007-03-14 12:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie, I wanted to let you know that when I was younger I sounded the same as you. I am now a fitness instructor and have lost a lot of weight in 4 years. The first thing you said was that you were fat and ugly! That just said to me you are unhappy with your self. No matter how big you are, or how you dress, there will always be something beautiful about you, and you just have to figure it out your self. Have self pride, respect yourself. And that means dress how you want to, dress like a boy if you want too, but if you want to dress like a girl then go ahead. If someone takes the Micki then just say ' well I am a girl, am I not entitled to dress the way I want to without your stupid comments?' If dressing like a girl makes you feel good about yourself then do it- its what you feel like not what other people think. But don't change for this Nathan chap. Act for yourself, and the right person will love you for the person you are not what you appear to be! Take care. XXXX
2007-03-14 12:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Bex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K, who in the world told you that you were ugly? If you want to get with Nathan you have to firstly think differently of yourself. if you look at yourself as ugly then others will too and i know that you don't want Nathan calling you fat and ugly! Be yourself, act normal, smile. You have to be confident, i dress differentlly all the time and my freinds don't make fun of me. you have to strut it, act as if you don't care about what they think. Show Nathan Sharp what youre all about. Fashion can go all the way, if youre a tomboy try out some of Ciara's styles. As for the fat thing, I struggled with the weight thing as well, all girls go through it but don't let it get to ya! Remember be confident,youre not ugly, If you need more advice you can email me at crazycb13@yahoo, us sistas have to look out 4 1another
2007-03-14 12:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you aren't fat or ugly! Just be nice to Nathan and do the whole friends act! If he likes you, things will happen! Good luck!
2007-03-14 14:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Caiti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If he is like that honey he so isn't worth it!! If your willing to change your appearance for him then I guess thats what your going to do. Go on a diet, change your hair colour? nothing wrong with dressing like a guy heck we all do it lol. I use to wear mini skirts 24-7 now im all for shorts! Find out why he's not interested.. Don't push it though..
Take care, I hope it all works out for you!!
2007-03-14 12:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dress as yourself if he doesnt like you for you then he isnt worth it.
2007-03-14 12:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is that you dount wont to change your self to make a guy like you because then he duss not like you for who your are he likes you for the way you look if he is right for you he will like you for who you are not what you look like
2007-03-14 12:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋