His brother, sister-in-law, and their 2 kids wont move out!?

Question

My boyfriend and I just got a place together 2 months ago and his brothers family moved in with us because they were homeless. They had their tax return to get a place and promised me they would get a place in 2 weeks. Well they are still unemployed and they spent all of their tax return money (house money). They help out with cleaning and food sometimes (with food stamps) but that is it. I dont want to kick them out on the street because they have kids and I dont want to ruwin my new relationship because I would be kicking his family out when they have no where else to go. Does anyone have any ideas?

Answer 1

I would think that this will work out best if you and your boyfriend talk first and come up with rules that both of you agree to. Unless the two of you are on the same page there is little chance of changing the situation. But if you two come up with ground rules (how long they can stay, what they pay for while there, and what chores they do) then you can back each other up.

If you don't come to that understanding then the other family will just play the two of you against each other.

Answer 2

do no longer touch her lower back! Wait 6 months, and notice if she comes around. She is ungrateful, disrespectful, rude and incorrect and in case you proceed allowing her habit, she'll by no ability substitute. as much as you will possibly unlike lacking Nathan and the start of your niece, its time so which you would be able to take a stand. concentration on your person son, and permit Heather to develop up and lead to line with all and sundry to help her, her babies, and her silly habit.

Answer 3

You and your bf need to have a talk with them. Tell them they are welcome to stay for "x" amount of time (say 6mo or 9mo, w/e you are comfortable with) and tell them in that time they need to get jobs and get their own place. Usually if there is a time limit it will give them more of a push to get out there and find jobs.