In life, only a few are lucky to find their love and its extremely rare that you find two. If you do happen to find both of these loves togather, how do you choose? how do you say this love is better than the other?
2007-03-14 12:14:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on if one loves you and the other doesn't
2007-03-14 12:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you gotta choose because if you don't you'll either have to lie to one or both and eventually, they'll dump you and you'll have neither one.
what do you value most? affection, time, sex, talking, gifts, favors done for you. These are five ways a person expresses love. Think about which is most important to you and go with the love who is your best match. you'll be happier and feel better loved. So, if you like to touch and give each other sensual massages and hold hands and she doesn't, well, you'll never be really satisfied. If she likes you to give her gifts to show your love and you're not into that, then she'll never be satisfied.
and face it, if you're not getting the kind of love you want you'll be wishing you'd have chosen the other one.
2007-03-14 12:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is not possible... You like one and love the other....
Do they know eachother..? they might just be testing you because they are "insecure"...and they need PROOF who you will choose...If they know eachother forget them both...
They are playing with themselves.......I need more details...
These feeling's are unbalanced.... Lust or love..? Which one is there..? which one is not..? Which one puts you first..? Which one Has her own life that doesn't revolve around yours..? what do you want in a "women"..? compare your needs..? Can you communicate with these two equally..?
Which one lacks most of what you want in a HUMAN..?
2007-03-14 12:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the woman with a rich family
2007-03-14 12:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by ssshoebox67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a loaded question, not really easly answered. Love is love, neither can be better than the other. See if they're willing to share you, I hear that's getting pretty popular these days.
If monogomy is the way to go for you, then you have to trust your heart. I personally was engaged when I found myself in love with my best friend. I ended the engagement, it's wasn't fair to him. I knew what I felt though & trusted it, as should you.
2007-03-14 12:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is why their is dateing,so you can desifer between deep like ,aka lust. And True love and compatablity,you can love some one so passhionatly body and sole but be completly incompatable.So unless you have some life threting condishion take your time and figuer out whom is best suted to have a life with,talk abougt things such as children and money issues where you want to live even who will do chores shoping ect.
2007-03-14 12:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by christine h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can not give you a good answer the best i can say is ask your self if Woman A disappeared would you be able to move on and live your life ?? now ask your self the same thing about woman B , which one can you not live with out ? if you can't live with out both of them. i hope you are loaded, buy an island and have two wives.
2007-03-14 12:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... first I asses who I can love evenly. I don't wanna choose the one who loves more. I really don't wanna be in a one sided love. Then, I would weigh their personalities and see which one fits mine most and in the long run... I could deal with. (pros and cons). Last, I would ask them "why me" and basically it will just come. Sometimes you could really see the spark.
2007-03-14 12:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by RC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be blunt and honest, you can only have ONE love. Yeah I know coming from a dude, it's wierd, but its the truth. TRUE love is shared from ONE person to ONE other person. You cacn't have you cake and eat it too. Try the jelly bean game. What you do is take a handful of jelly beans and ask yourself, who makes you laugh. they get a jelly bean. who makes you feel good about yourself. they get a jelly bean..and on and on..the winner is the one you should stay with.
2007-03-14 12:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by mr security 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will just know which one you really truly love, let the other one down easy beacuse she truly loves u two.
2007-03-14 12:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer_Diva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't choose, go out with both of them!
2007-03-14 12:17:58 · answer #11 · answered by exqueezme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋