I have a boyfriend who is really rude but then really sweet.but today i went to give him a hug and he pushed me rely hard away.and i walked away and he didnt care .he didnt try to come after me.everyday now he has been rude.and today he told me that he doesnt know wut to do(wether to break up with me or not.and i juss said w.e cus i dont want him to but i have been flirting with other boys in front of him becus eh did that to me with sum gurls.but its not helping..PLEASE SOME ONE HELP MEEEEEE
2007-03-14 12:14:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, flirting with other guys is never a good idea, it will only make him more mad and could even make things worse, even if he flirts with other girls (two wrongs don't make a right) Second, if he hurts you and does not treat you good, then you should not be wasting your time, you deserve someone who will be good to you ALL the time, not just sometimes. I know it's hard to break up with someone that you care about, but you obviously must not be happy to be having these questions. I think breaking up with him would be your best option, especially if you're asking complete strangers for advice.
2007-03-14 12:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by prncessstef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so this may feel like the end of the world. But i can assure you that its not:]...Theres nothing like the feeling of being pushed away by someone u loves, especially your boyfriend. And I can relate to how your feel. If he dosent know what to do then u should just break up with him, chances are that if you both are flirting with other ppl, then maybe you want to be with other people too, I'm sorry about what your going through. Boys can be ssooo immature, like its just a fact. So hang in there, and consider if you Even really want to be his girlfriend anymore. Any guy that is rude like that to, Shouldn't deserve you, and probably isn't the right guy for you! Best of luck to ya!..and hey being single is fun too=)
2007-03-14 19:22:14 · answer #2 · answered by little miss sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to get as far way from him. It start with a push and hurtful word then it can get more fiscal. This guy need to get help for his problem. He doesn't care if u are there or not.
Yes its heard, but u can do it u r stronger than u think.
Have u told Ur family or friend of what he has done to u?
My bet is that u have not cz u know its wrong. They would hurt him. U know the answer to this one
Run don't Walk away from him!!!!!!
2007-03-14 19:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Natural 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unhealthy relationship. You spend more time making each other jealous, fighting, and hurting each other than do anything else. You need to get out of this relationship before either of you seriously damages the other, physically or emotionally.
Then you need to spend some time on your own and learn how to deal with other people maturely, instead of playing games.
Also, please pay attention to proper spelling and grammar if you want anyone to take your posts seriously.
2007-03-14 19:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, and this will hurt, I think you're too young to be dating. That goes for both of you. You're playing games, and that's not good. Be willing to not date for awhile and get to know yourself and what you like. Read "The Rules" -- that will really help. He'll want you if you walk away first, but if you chase after him, you'll lose him.
2007-03-14 19:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. You really thought that getting him jealous woul help? Listen, maybe he's having some problems. Just try to instigate a conversation. If that doesn't take, dump him. Also, you should never ever let him shove you or anything.
2007-03-14 19:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy cow gal!!! Get out and find someone who treats you what you're worth. Besides, you shouldnt be flirting with anyone when you are in a relationship!
2007-03-14 19:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by bwtiger0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some dignity girlfriend!If a guy treatd your daughter that way what you tell her?Dumo the little punk YESTERDAY!Theres other cute guys who treat their g/f's with love and respect in the sea.Go catch one.
2007-03-14 19:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. If he is pushing you like that now he is close to beating on you ( abuse) Find someone else who will be loving towards you. You don't deserve to be trated like trash. Your better then that. Its his loss and don't ever take him back.
2007-03-14 19:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to check your spelling. And secondly, you need to focus on your books and not on no pissy boys!
2007-03-14 19:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋