My bestfriend is Brazlian and beautiful and we became friends in 2000. I was her first friend here in America so we been tight ever since but I keep having these dreams or "nightmares" about having a 3some with her and her boyfriend. I have a boyfriend and we all hang out alot. I also hear them having sex when I spend the nite and it's sounds like fun.
What To Do?
Who should I tell without sounding weird?
2007-03-14 12:12:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. You know deep down inside if you were gay, bi or whatever.
2. Perhaps you feel you are missing out on having the passion in your relationship or the "fun" sex they sound like they are having. You may have a great guy that you care for but wish to have more joy and passion in your relations and more "fun" while having sex with him. Maybe that's why you place yourself with them in your dreams ( I want what they have/ I want to be a part that kind of passion and fun ). Assuming you have sex with your boyfriend, talk to him. Be prepared to explain why you are passionate about him want to celebrate sex with him. Discover what makes sex fun and enjoyable for you both as well as what makes you both passionate for each other.
2007-03-14 14:01:53 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a natural feeling you are having, In your mind you admire her and of course if she is having good sex then you should be too.
The dreams are a way for your mind to sort out your feelings about them making love within earshot of you. In a way listening is a way of being a part of it. In any case that must be how your subconscious sees it.
Don't worry about it. just have sex with your b/f and have a good time. tell him what you want before you are having sex so it doesn't stop the flow.
2007-03-14 12:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by Robert E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by llerena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are secretly fantasising about having a threesome with them hearing them having sex sounds like fun and maybe you aren't having fun and exciting sex with your boyfriend (what to do im not sure) or maybe you could talk to them and your boyfriend and you all could have a foursome (but threesomes foursomes could break great friendships)
2007-03-14 12:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by xanderbee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As to the dreams and the way you say you hear them and you think it sounds like fun...I say the dreams are do to that's what you secretly desire to happen.
2007-03-14 12:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it's probably just your sub-conscience, you hear them having sex, you must talk to them a lot during the day so they're probably on your mind, and you might just be a bit horny ... now unless you wanna have a threesome with them, or want to freak them out I would just chalk it up to exactly what it is, a dream
2007-03-14 12:17:20 · answer #6 · answered by Like Nothing Else 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep having these dreams tell your best friend and see how she would feel about it.
But what would you do if she has been having the same dreams?
2007-03-14 12:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP and IMMEDIATELY go talk to your friend an ask to have a 3 way - that will be so much fun for ALL of you
2007-03-14 12:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
looks liek you;ve got some subconcious desires....
2007-03-14 12:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by shatteredstar00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz u are sexually attracted to them; nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-14 12:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋