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i just started going out with him, and one night at his house we kissed and probably did more than we should have. but now it feels like he doesnt care that it happened. he flirts with other girls a little but that hasnt really bugged me until he started ignoring me around other people. when were alone though, its a different story. so i asked him if he thought we should break up. he said he wasnt sure and acted kinda suprised. i asked him what his answer was and he still say i dont know. I really like him and have now for a long time. but i dont want to be played. what should i do?

2007-03-14 12:09:56 · 13 answers · asked by Trouble 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

This guy is a player! If I were you, I would just forget about him because you dont want to get involved with him. He wants you and the other girls at the same time, he is only keeping you as a rebound! When he gets another girl he wants, he'll dump you later. So, I would suggest you just leave this guy.

Remember there's always better guys for you, you dont deserve this crap from him.

2007-03-14 12:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Is it that he really does not care any more or is it because you perhaps feel guilty for doing more then you really wanted to and now you are reacting to him differently? You may be acting insecure and unsure of yourself and turning him off. However, the fact that you ask him if you and he should break up and he said he does not know, means the two of you lack the ability to communicate. Why don't you try openly discussing with him your feelings of having done too much too soon and you are feeling like he is showing you less respect. Open the door to discuss it and your feelings. If he refused to discuss it or to recognize your feelings then yes, you should break up with him because he is insensitive to your needs. Good luck, whatever you decide. Just be good to yourself, respect yourself, and remember nobody can hurt you unless you let them.

2007-03-14 19:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by beviloumae 1 · 1 0

It sounds like he's not as interested in this relationship as you are and maybe is not ready for such a relationship. If he's ignoring you in front of others, that's a real red flag. Also, just my opinion, but because he wasn't able to give you a firmer answer to your question about whether you should break up, my guess is that he's willing to hang around to see what he can "get", but wouldn't much care if it ended. I'm sorry, but I think you should move on.

2007-03-14 19:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sels 4 · 0 0

every woman deserves a good man. If he ignores you around his friends, then he is just playing it cool. However you should never ask if he wants to break up unless you really want to know the answer. (you believe that he does at this point and you want to beat him to the punch, am I right) Work on feeling more confident, and doing your own thing and not really worrying about what he is doing.

2007-03-14 19:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Seasidelover23 2 · 0 0

My advise: Get a new boyfriend. If he is hitting on other girls while ur dating him, it doesnt sound like he is a good boyfriend. Try 2 find someone nicer, and more trustworthy. Good luck!

2007-03-14 19:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by jerr252 2 · 0 0

Ah, you should run and never look back! lol

#1. He's a jerk - if he was really interested in you he would hang around, talk to you.

#2. This has "Booty Call" potential - And you deserve better than that, hell everyone does.

Good luck

2007-03-14 19:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 1 0

it sounds like you need to have a 1 on 1 talk with this guy. tell him how you feel... that you really like him but you dont kno if he wants the relationship to continue.. he should honestly tell you what he feels !!

2007-03-14 19:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by pointegurlie7706 3 · 0 0

dump him on his a$$ girl
you are being played and if he is saying i dont know when you ask him if you should break uo he is probably having second thoughs too

2007-03-14 19:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by rollin with the homies 2 · 0 0

gurl i kno how u feel cuz mah boifriend b thinkn i b cheatin' on him but wen i b talkn 2 him itz a different story so herez wat u should do:
tell him u feel itz not gon' work and say if u dont want 2 break up den straighten up cuz i dont want 2 do it but u actn like u dont care and u playn me and i ain't a game. Tell him im strictly buiznezz and not on mo' of hiz gamez. tell him i dont think u realli kno wat luv iz cuz u act like u dont and i luv u but i dont kno wat 2 do but c otha ppl.
cuz i did d@ and mah boifriend straighten up hiz act cuz wen i told him how i felt hiz eyez waz teary and now we still 2getha and we dont have no problemz.

2007-03-14 19:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sydni S 2 · 0 0

Move on if he doesnt know what he wants now he will never know

2007-03-14 19:13:21 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0 0

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