Time and time again the ladies are asking where are the good ones? Real men. Why are all guys pigs? And so on.
Well guess what, you all have been passed around by the same group of guys. These are the guys who are cute, charming, and funny. The guys who are hitting on you and getting your phone numbers every day. The guys who want to use and leave ya.
You know why they seem so great when you first meet them, because they are very good at what they do. They hide their true nature and lure you in by appearing to be exactly what you want.
So now I ask do you not realize that by just standing around and looking cute you are inviting them over? These guys are a hundred times more likely to approach you than a decent guy. Why? because they've done it hundreds of times before, they have lots of experience and confidence. It's very logical.
Now to help out a bit, any girls who have been victim of this. List some signs of what to look for if you know any.
2007-03-14 12:07:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If anyone wants my advice on what to look for, feel free to email me.
2007-03-14 12:08:13 · update #1
Just FYI. I have no problem approaching a women. I am completely confident because I have no reason not to be. I've been with my girl for about a year and a half now and things are great.
I ask this question to perhaps spur thought in people and help them realize just what's going on in large scale. And, hey, it might even lower then amount of "why are all men pigs" questions.
2007-03-14 12:29:13 · update #2
So why don't the good guys step it up, get some confidence and change our minds about the scum of the earth ... not all guys are pigs... girls only get played by them because most of the time they ignore the signs that they know are heading for trouble because they think they're in love ... we all get fooled ... you just can't let it happen more then once ...
2007-03-14 12:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Like Nothing Else 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
The reason you would post this is because you have something against guys who approach women. Not all guys who are confident are pigs and YOU are half the reason why the girls get stuck with them. If people like you would take responcibility and learn these traits you wouuld level the playing field and girls would meet guys that are worthwhile. Men don't come out of their mother's vagina's with enough charm to seduce a woman. It is a trait that is learned. I used to not be able to even look a girl in the eye's. Now I teach men these traits so they can level the playing field. If this really makes you angry then you should learn confidence and help level things out.
2007-03-14 19:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, Im a girl and completely aware of those types of guys. I refuse to settle for anyone less than is good enough - and if there arent any guys out there who are both good looking and decent guys -then I dont need any of them. Why should I have to get only one or the other? But I do agree that many girls are very very naive and fall for those really cheap guys.
2007-03-14 19:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not been a viticm. But I don't say yes to everyone either. I hang out with the fun guys that are really great and I've known them for about 2 years. But the guys who do that are always looking up and down at you and are really perverted.
2007-03-14 19:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you know i think that i agree with girls shouldn't label all guys as pigs just because they all are! i go to skool where all the "popular" kids go out with eachother than get dumped and upset where we "unpopular" kids go out with people wer really like and we don't get crushed as often (it still does happen) it's because we look for people who are awesome and we have a lot in common with not just someone everyone else wants so that we can show them off... so my advice to you just be yourself act normal be patient and wait for the right person who doesn't "stereo" type you!
2007-03-14 19:14:18 · answer #5 · answered by ~sugar lips~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dead on!!!!!! That is so completely true. I admit I've been a victim in my younger years but not anymore. I actually find "that guy" completely obnoxious. I prefer to date a guy for the way he treats me, and for who he is as a person.
2007-03-14 19:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are too confident and smarmy. When they seem to think they are God's gift to women. When they are showing off before their mates. Avoid all those sorts. There are plenty of wonderful ones out there, but not necessarily so obvious.
2007-03-14 19:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by Older&Wiser 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch how they act around their friends (guys and girls). Warning signs are over-confidence, and inflated ego. Also, if he talks about sex or tries to get to any bases right away, get out!
2007-03-14 19:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by tinkerbell_pixy24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ones that don't have a job! Live with thier MOMMA! Are with a bunch of other good looking guys.
2007-03-14 19:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Tamra P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.. thats really good advice
my love life is like that.. i really should get over my guy.. hes not good toward me..he was nice at first and seemed like he cared ...then just left me when i began to flirt back
the signs he made were
1.relates to you too much
2. gives you a million complements
3. talks a lot then forgets you and calls when hes bored
WATCH OUT FOR GUYS LIKE THAT !!! they are everywhere
2007-03-15 19:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by MeLLy BeLLy =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋