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In a Nut Shell: I'm hooking up with a friend who has wanted to get with me for a long time. ( He six years older , I have classes with him.) He starts making out with me then tries to get below my belt pretty soon into it... I tell him no, then later on he starts forcing my hand to go below his.. I said no ...But basically he said all these nice things like, " your too good for me, " or this is the greatest spring break ever for him. And I turn him on so much just by kissing him. He tells me how much he wants to touch my hair .. and how good looking I am... Then later hes like I like you..... He texted me the next day to see if I got home okay and left it with Babe. Should I hook up with him again ? My gut is telling me that he is pushing the envelope and I dont want anything more than a hook up . Thanks for your time !

2007-03-14 12:05:16 · 8 answers · asked by mmc7333 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

By the I'm 18 sorry for being unclear..After I said no to letting him put his hands in my pants , he left me alone with that stuff.. =/

2007-03-14 12:20:32 · update #1

8 answers

Ok, you're being kinda unclear about what happened. It sounds like you may have been molested or raped, and if so, you need to take it to the police. What he did was wrong, and you need to get away from him ASAP.

2007-03-14 12:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Happy go Lucky 4 · 1 0

please don't hook up with this guy . he obviously has trouble with no and if he has trouble just being friends he wasn't a friend to begin with. If all he cares about is hooking up then that is probably all he will care about as far as your concerned or he would be more considerate of your feelings.

2007-03-14 12:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by zookeeper 3 · 0 0

hun, thats called sexuall assault, if he is forcing you to do things you feel uncomfortable doing, and he should know better than to keep going hwhen you say no. guys need to think with their brains if you know what i mean, report him if you feel like he is puching you too hard because if he ever gets drunk he might rape you.

p.s.
if you are under 18 and he is older than you thats statitory rape and that's illigal

2007-03-14 12:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by rollin with the homies 2 · 0 0

My guess? Yes indeed, he wants to hook up with you, in my day it was called getting into your *****. So beware, and very very careful.

2007-03-14 12:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 1 0

Follow your heart, if you think he is going to far than dont

2007-03-14 12:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by ~HockeyChik~ 2 · 0 0

I wouldn't.

6 years older- not so good

using you- not good at all.

2007-03-14 12:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nothing 6 · 1 0

no find someone else. don't let guys push you around think of yourself first. good luck

2007-03-14 12:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0 0

i say go for it girly!

2007-03-14 12:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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