My fiancee and I have been together for almost a year. When we first started seeing each other I told him some stories about me and my ex's that I shouldn't have.He didnt like it and it hurt him inside. Well last night while in an argument he told me about him and his ex having sex at a local park in the middle of the day and it totally tore me up inside.Now I am hurt, really hurt and cant get the picture of them out of my head. How do I put this behind us without it always being in my thoughts?
2007-03-14 12:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by Marci 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it was before you came along, then you're just being an emotional female. More than likely, that's it. One up her...have sex with him some where wayyyyy better than that. On the flipside, since the damage is already done...I have to ask, what would possess you to tell this man all of your business before he came along. Some **** is just personal, ya know. Get over it and move on..he's gonna ALWAYS have had sex with her and you can't change it. So..accept it & keep it moving or break up. As long as your trippin off some Pre-You incident, you're screwed anyways.
2007-03-14 12:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by cyn d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first things first...he shouldn't be your fiancee if you have only been see each other for a year. Way too soon.
You made the rules when you brought up your past, now you don't like it. Well sorry that isn't the way it works. You screwed up thinking that a guy wants to know, he doesn't. You told him for your own selfish reasons, to feel better about yourself. What is that saying: what you say can and will be used against you.
There is nothing you can do about it now except find a boyfriend. He will and should hold it against you, as you will with him forever.
This is why you should date longer before making the mistake of marriage.
2007-03-14 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my best advice to give you is that you shouldn't let this get to you. just tell him that what he said really hurt you and talk to him about it. if he is your fiancee then there should be no problem with talking about it. also you're engaged meaning that he loves you and you love him. so what both of you should do is don't focus so much on the past and look to the future, which is where you two are headed. you want to live in the future that lies ahead of you, not the past which is behind you.
2007-03-14 19:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U started it the past should be left there in the past
2007-03-14 19:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swing and watch each other screwing - it is fun
2007-03-14 19:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently im not alone
2007-03-14 19:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋