2007-03-14 12:02:54 · 19 answers · asked by Smileyyy bearrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and you aren't ready? then just say, hey, slow it down, if you really like me, then you'll wait, if not, then you aren't right for me.
(or something less counseler-y than that)
2007-03-14 12:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're ready because if you were, you'd know without having to ask complete strangers if you should. Think about it this way, when you're in a relationship, never do anything for or with a person that you will regret if that person breaks up with you? In other words, if you guys go "too far" and then next month he wants to quit seeing you, will you regret your decision? I hope you make the right choice.
2007-03-14 19:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too far? whered he go? now a days gas is a *****....aint nobody gonna be goin too far unless you got yourself a good job like a lawyer or doctor. just tell him that its too expensive and you two should just stay home and have a nice roll in the hay.
2007-03-14 19:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by Asskick M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about sex?if he cares for you at all,he will respect you when you say no.Save yourself for that special person.It is not worth it,it will not keep his interest just because you say yes.I'm speaking from experience,they drop you as a hot potato afterwords.Man are hunters,after they get their trophy,they go on to the next thing.
but....perhaps he wants to go far far away ,let him.
2007-03-14 19:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by christine w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no, but say why. If it's becuse you don't think your ready, or you want to get to know him better, just say so. But if you reject him without a reason, he will be confused and frustrated.
2007-03-14 19:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by Quinoafab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you are not ready, don't go there!!! It will be worth the wait. You don't have to wait until you're married, but for goodness sake, wait until you're ready.
2007-03-14 19:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important question is: do you want to? If not, tell him so. If he truly loves you, he'll wait until you're ready and not pressure you.
2007-03-14 19:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Prue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far is too far ?
100 miles ?
2007-03-14 19:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean sex, do it only if you are ready. Don't be pressured into something you are not ready for. You only lose your virginity once.
2007-03-14 19:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Hester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him where to get a cold shower FAST -- and make
sure he gets it
2007-03-14 19:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋