They are to young for that and its not they're falt I cant control my anger I need other statagies and ways to be a better parent. HELP
2007-03-14 11:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by kibee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Call your local welfare or rehabilitation center and check on some anger control/management classes. Also check into some parenting classes. We can never learn too much about parenting.
If they can not help find anger management classes ask your doctor, local D.A.'s office or someone at the police station. They should have a clue as to where to go for information.
I think you have made a major big step in the right direction when you realized and admitted that you had a problem and need to find help. Although we can offer suggestions, it will be professionals that can really help you get a handle on this.
Your kids will really appreciate that you love them enough to seek some outside help for your anger/frustration problems.
Good Luck! I really pray you will follow through and seek some help before your children get old enough to start resenting you and then acting the same way when they are frustrated.
2007-03-14 12:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and blow it out slowly. Meditate and tell yourself that you are not going to hurt your kids anymore. Check with local agencies about signing up for a parenting class. In my area, the hospitals have parenting classes. You need to get control of this. Your children's lives depend on it.
2007-03-14 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn relaxation techniques. You can see your own anger coming sometimes and then you can head it off by distracting yourself or the other person. If you can't control your anger and you think it is an issue, see if a therapist can help. Or your doctor (perhaps with medication).
2007-03-18 08:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to learn new ways to deal with stress/anger. Check out some self-help books and counseling.
2007-03-14 11:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are sincere about your question, you have asked for advice so my advice is for you to seek counseling before you actually damage your kids,if not all ready.I know first hand what kinds of problems stem from being abused.At 43 I still need counseling.
2007-03-14 12:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by gotgoji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to seek some help. put your kids in time out and ask your self why you are doing that. put your self in time out. take a walk. put on a happy song and maybe even sing along. dont take your anger out on your kids
2007-03-14 12:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by *tinkerbell princess* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance is the same way. You really need to shape up now or you will damage your kids for life. Maybe you are depressed or something.......go seek help.
2007-03-14 12:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Lana Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should seek professional counseling.
2007-03-14 12:14:21 · answer #8 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use one of those squishy balls. seek counsoling. bite your tongue. when you feel like that have a rubber band around your wrist and if you feel in that mood then snap it. that should help.
2007-03-14 12:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by Eliza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mister you shouldnt take bad things on your kids you should make your self happy in every way
2007-03-14 12:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by hanerd polois 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋