I have a big problem i nmy relationship.The boy im with right now i love him with all my heart.But the thing is that he gets jelouse real easily .For example im talkin to a close friend he's walkin and just passes by like he dont even relieze me.Then i get so mad then i come to class all grumpy then i take it out on my friends.Then my friends ask me whats wrong and i tell them that he shouldn't get jelouse because im talkin to a guy friend .Then my friends tell my boyfriend that he needs to chill then he comes and hugs me like notin happened. Then I get all confused then i think to break up with him but i love him . Now im askin from other people what should i do beacuase i ask my friends but there no help.
2007-03-14 11:41:17 · 11 answers · asked by Boboolicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all jelousy is no good you might think it is o.k bu that is a psychological problem that needs therapy or you need to communicate with him more. Before jumping into anything serious you need to find out hes back ground family past relatioships. It might sound crazy but seriously it will save you time that you will need for other things that matter. Think for the future
2007-03-14 11:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by vic's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my boyfriend is like that. I tell you what you're experiencing now is better than what I have. Mine was never jealous at all inspite of a DATE WITH OTHER GUY. Atleast you know how much he loves you, not that he doesn't trust you, just make it a point to let him know what you do, and that you have no intention of mingling or flirting since you love him that much. Just amke him feel how much you love hima nd that you doesn't want to give him up. Goodluck
2007-03-14 11:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by mushy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ya'll both gotta problem with making something out of nothing. Maybe ya'll need some time apart if all he does is be jealous and you wanna break up everytime time something goes wrong.Or if your relationship means anything then ya'll need to communicate and move on. Issues come often in a relationship if its worth it to you you'll work it out with him.
2007-03-14 11:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by ladydream67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of guys get jealous easy espesially if they care about you so just try to stop talkin to other guys i mean wouldnt you get kinda mad if you saw him talkin to a chick friend???
2007-03-14 11:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how long you've been going out for.. if you have been dating for only a little while then it is completly understandable that he should get jelous..if you've been dating for a long time he should not get jelous anymore...
also have you dated these 'guy friends' in the past..? because if you have then that is another reason your current bf can be jelous!
if it bothers you that he get jelous then talk to him about it and make him see that there is nothing to worry about...
2007-03-14 11:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of askin other people for advice and telling other people..TALK TO HIM YOURSELF!!!like really it's the easiest and best way to fix the problem..
2007-03-14 11:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by JOANclay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt treat you that way !! i think you should sit him down and explain to him how it makes you feel when he does that and tell him hes gonna have to stop or that you cant be with him anymore and if he really cares about you he will stop...
2007-03-14 11:47:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jessika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to have some self confidence.
2007-03-14 11:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you so much he dosent want anyone to take you away *explane to him he has been your good friend*
2007-03-14 11:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by nicholas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is really scared of losing you.
2007-03-14 12:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by mellybear9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋