okay so im the type of girl that cant live without a boyfriend, sooo i have a boyfriend right now but i don't liek him very much and im tryign to find a new boyfriend and as soon as i get a new one if i like him i stick with him but if i dont i stay with the one i have.... is that bad??
2007-03-14 11:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not bad... And don't listen to that un-educated guy who say's to build up self esteem before you move on to your prince charming...Just take in mind that he is a guy with a typical response..Anyhow
I believe you are very up to date with what you want in a man
Only this individual that you call your present "boyfriend" does not meet your expectation's (needs) A GAP........
You might see these wants and needs that you desire in your "boyfriend" you might just think he is capable of fufilling your wants needs (thee expectation) and obviously he has not but you continue to "HOPE".....AAAHHH women...! Or simply he is a dog and he is just telling you what you want to hear............................................................................................
2007-03-14 12:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I wonder why it is that you think you NEED a boyfriend all the time? Is it because you like the attention? Are you afraid of living alone? Need someone to talk to all the time? When you have a boyfriend are you very affectionate, or just need another warm body there as a sounding board? I feel there are some people who think they need to be in a relationship to validate themselves as worthy somehow, but if you are floating in and out of these relationships like this, and obviously not happy with who you keep ending up with, then maybe you should reconsider having a boyfriend at this time entirely? Find out WHO you are, and WHAT it is you are really looking for, because it just doesn't seem that a boyfriend is truly what the search is about. :-)
2007-03-14 18:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by lee3lan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back up! "The kind of girl who can't live without a boyfriend"??!! You gotta ask what you're getting from the relationships that makes you feel that way. You CAN live without a BF and be VERY HAPPY. Try it. Break up with the guy if he isn't IT and you're just hanging on. Get your girlfriends to be your accountability partners and keep you honest. Have fun. Find yourself. Read. Paint. Go for a hike. You'll be surprised how good the single life can be AND how confident you can become.
2007-03-14 18:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Michael R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amy, I think you have to make a list of what you want in a b/f and what you don't want. It is good to be choosy in that regard. If you do that you have better chance of being happy.
That may require you not to be in the presence of a guy 24/7. That's not a bad thing. It gives your a little time to get grounded (it's a good thing, not a bad thing) and get your bearings, make that list and find the guy that meets your wants, needs and desires.
2007-03-14 18:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think U have a problem within yourself called"insecure"you need to be alone for awhile ...get involved in something that can occupy your time to where u have no time ti think about a relationship..you sound young ;men come a dime a dozen 'youth comes around once enjoy life last thing you would want is a baby and welfare !!!!GOOD LUCK
2007-03-14 18:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not so bad to be single! Geez gal, dating several is better than being with a boyfriend you dont like. What the hell is wrong with not having a boyfriend? You just using him for status. Not cool!
2007-03-14 18:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by bwtiger0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah that is. why do you feel like you NEED a boyfriend anyway. Whas wrong with being single? That way you can date as many people as you can handle without tying yourself to one and end up in this situation again!GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-14 18:40:07 · answer #7 · answered by luciousbbwkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be by yourself. YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND!
besides, I think it is dishonest to be with someone just b/c of your own insecurities. Guys will like you so much more if you are self confident and not needy.
2007-03-14 18:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by SouthernGrits 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you treat guys as if they were socks, or under ware?
"OK i don't like this pants to much... I need to get another one"
maybe you shouldn't have any boyfriends at all till you are ready for a serious relationship
2007-03-14 18:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by united we stand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Think about your boyfriends feelings. You can live without a boyfriend and you should try it. It'll help you gain independence.
2007-03-14 18:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by shatteredstar00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋