My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years now. We are going to get married some day but not now, because we're waiting for him to finish college. My parents wont agree with it but his parents are incouraging us to. I grew up in a christian home and he didnt, but we go to church together now. I wont to move out on my on but cant afford it. So we thought we would split the payments. But im stuck in the middle of doing it and not doing it. I really need some advice on this one!!!
2007-03-14 11:33:24 · 4 answers · asked by Red Velvet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel totally commited to it, and have a plan on the back burner just in case it doesn't work, go for it. I mean, if you have a place you can afford now it would not be wise, no matter how well you get along, to give it up, just in case living together doesn't work. You could be totally weird with each other living together at first, even if you get along fine other times. It's weird. :) I understand.... I would say no way if you had said 4 months, but 4 years, with marriage in the future? You're probably okay. Trust your feelings.
2007-03-14 11:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by misteri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if uve been together for 4 years and are planin on gettin married someday you should definitly move in together cuz its gona hapen eventually
2007-03-14 11:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by whatsgood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go for it
2007-03-14 12:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by mellybear9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him then try go for it
2007-03-14 11:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by nicholas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋